Could be dealing with discipline problems, behavior, parents, grading... you name it....In your first years of teaching, what was the best piece of advice anyone gave you?
Read Harry Wong's book The First Days of School. In addition to suggestions about everything, he points out that teachers usually work harder than the students. They leave school exhausted, while students go out to play or hang with friends. Teachers should plan the lessons, and go out at night with their lovely / charming spouse, while students should do the work and leave school tired. Enlightening!
He also wrote,';My parents wanted me to become a brain surgeon. I exceeded their expectations. I became a teacher.'; How great is that? We should all feel that way.In your first years of teaching, what was the best piece of advice anyone gave you?
The best piece of advice I ever got was also the simplest: relax and enjoy it!
I now know exactly what she was talking about. That first year (and even the 2nd) is tough. You're on your own for the first time. You're figuring out the school, the schedules, the rules, the procedures, your co-workers, and the kids...it's hard! But don't get stressed out about the little things. Just go with it, do the best you can and love those students!
the best piece of advice i got was to write down the good/funny things that happen. that way when you're having a bad day and the kids and parents are driving you nuts, you can remind yourself of the good days.
Tread water your first year, doggy paddle the next and swim your third. It gets easier as you go, as your mature personally and professionally and realize that schools aren't what they used to be.
';You've got to get these kids under control!';
Duh, b****. You think?
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
I am hungry? any lunch suggestions? Best answer to the advice I actually take!?
Grilled Ham %26amp; Cheese if you are at home and can cook and if you are out, go to McDonalds for a $1 double cheeseburger and a vanilla icced coffee!!!I am hungry? any lunch suggestions? Best answer to the advice I actually take!?
I would go for the fry chicken wings and pork fry rice.I am hungry? any lunch suggestions? Best answer to the advice I actually take!?
order a pizza and have some ice cream
Chicken Quesadilla with guacamole/sour cream.
Brioche (a sweet buttery bread) with honey roast ham ^_^. I just had it and it was delicious!
Sliced lettuce, trail mix, mandarin orange segments, crunched up ramen noodles, sliced chicken breast, oriental style dressing.
poppyseed chicken casserole with a large homemade roll and salad...yummmmm!!
mine is '; IN %26amp; OUT BURGER'; awesome...
pheasant breast, and elk tenderloin complimented with a combination of maine lobster and cracked king crab, with traverse city cherry wine
go to the gristmill in new braunfels texas
Subway - they have great selection and you can make a sandwich or salad anyway you like it. Much more satisfying than just fast food.
Bay City--a deli/supermarket in santa monica has the best sandwiches around--but be prepared for a slight wait--everyone in la already knows this is the best sandwich
panera bread.
What are you hungry for? What do you like....Here are some ideas:
Fast food: Wendy's or McDonald's
Chinese: maybe some soup, egg roll, and some sesame chicken (or what dish you prefer)
or go grab sub at Subway, you customize it..... or Quizno's.....
How about a calzone or some pizza.......
A chef salad....a ceasar salad with or without chicken......
How about some KFC chicken or a pot pie....
This can go on and on...
I would go for the fry chicken wings and pork fry rice.I am hungry? any lunch suggestions? Best answer to the advice I actually take!?
order a pizza and have some ice cream
Chicken Quesadilla with guacamole/sour cream.
Brioche (a sweet buttery bread) with honey roast ham ^_^. I just had it and it was delicious!
Sliced lettuce, trail mix, mandarin orange segments, crunched up ramen noodles, sliced chicken breast, oriental style dressing.
poppyseed chicken casserole with a large homemade roll and salad...yummmmm!!
mine is '; IN %26amp; OUT BURGER'; awesome...
pheasant breast, and elk tenderloin complimented with a combination of maine lobster and cracked king crab, with traverse city cherry wine
go to the gristmill in new braunfels texas
Subway - they have great selection and you can make a sandwich or salad anyway you like it. Much more satisfying than just fast food.
Bay City--a deli/supermarket in santa monica has the best sandwiches around--but be prepared for a slight wait--everyone in la already knows this is the best sandwich
panera bread.
What are you hungry for? What do you like....Here are some ideas:
Fast food: Wendy's or McDonald's
Chinese: maybe some soup, egg roll, and some sesame chicken (or what dish you prefer)
or go grab sub at Subway, you customize it..... or Quizno's.....
How about a calzone or some pizza.......
A chef salad....a ceasar salad with or without chicken......
How about some KFC chicken or a pot pie....
This can go on and on...
Girls advice please?? (best answer!)?
Ok I'm going to Chicago for a graduate school forum and there is this girl I like a lot who also would be interested in going. She has a boyfriend (he is a loser) but we are very good friends. We live like 6 hours away and she said she would take the trip with me. Could I ask her to go there the day before and get a hotel room (so we dont have to leave at 5am)? I mean if we were friends or if we were dating this would be the practical thing to do. What do you think? Thanks so much!Girls advice please?? (best answer!)?
Absolutely, just tell her why you want to get ther early. There's nothing room with yout reason. Go for it.Girls advice please?? (best answer!)?
in theory,it sounds good. but that's it lol. id like to see any many let his gf go spend the nite in the same room with another man. but if he's that much of a loser,he might not even care. If you are very good friends like you say,than it cant hurt to ask :)
but,if she senses that you like her,and if she is a loyal gf,she might be a bit awkward about it.
Absolutely, just tell her why you want to get ther early. There's nothing room with yout reason. Go for it.Girls advice please?? (best answer!)?
in theory,it sounds good. but that's it lol. id like to see any many let his gf go spend the nite in the same room with another man. but if he's that much of a loser,he might not even care. If you are very good friends like you say,than it cant hurt to ask :)
but,if she senses that you like her,and if she is a loyal gf,she might be a bit awkward about it.
I have arcade i am thinking getting Pro or Elite cuz i don't have harddrive. advice which is best?
Save your money and just buy a hard drive off of ebay or at the store. The only advantage of Pro/Elite is a hard drive and an HDMI port depending on which Xbox you already have. The hard drives just snap into the top port of the Xbox. Here's the largest currently offered(120gb).
http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=xbox+360+hard+drive%26amp;oe=utf-8%26amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official%26amp;client=firefox-a%26amp;um=1%26amp;ie=UTF-8%26amp;cid=8721388758455939752%26amp;ei=xhprSv7OIo2GMaKelPkG%26amp;sa=X%26amp;oi=product_catalog_result%26amp;ct=result%26amp;resnum=6#ps-sellersI have arcade i am thinking getting Pro or Elite cuz i don't have harddrive. advice which is best?
Just buy the stater pack for $109, its cheeper than an xbox and you get everything you need:
Xbox 360 Hard Drive (60GB)
Xbox 360 Headset
Xbox LIVE 3-Month Gold Sub Card
Ethernet Connectivity CableI have arcade i am thinking getting Pro or Elite cuz i don't have harddrive. advice which is best?
i wouldnt listen to dont buy one cause idk i think arcades kinda suck but if you have a lot of games then get an elite but i have a pro and never run out of storage plus idk if this goes for arcade but the elite and pro come with 3 free one months for xbox live.
since you already have an hdmi port with the arcade unit - buy a 20gb or 60 gb drive from amazon.com or best buy.
no need to buy an entire new console.pores lower eye liner
http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=xbox+360+hard+drive%26amp;oe=utf-8%26amp;rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official%26amp;client=firefox-a%26amp;um=1%26amp;ie=UTF-8%26amp;cid=8721388758455939752%26amp;ei=xhprSv7OIo2GMaKelPkG%26amp;sa=X%26amp;oi=product_catalog_result%26amp;ct=result%26amp;resnum=6#ps-sellersI have arcade i am thinking getting Pro or Elite cuz i don't have harddrive. advice which is best?
Just buy the stater pack for $109, its cheeper than an xbox and you get everything you need:
Xbox 360 Hard Drive (60GB)
Xbox 360 Headset
Xbox LIVE 3-Month Gold Sub Card
Ethernet Connectivity CableI have arcade i am thinking getting Pro or Elite cuz i don't have harddrive. advice which is best?
i wouldnt listen to dont buy one cause idk i think arcades kinda suck but if you have a lot of games then get an elite but i have a pro and never run out of storage plus idk if this goes for arcade but the elite and pro come with 3 free one months for xbox live.
since you already have an hdmi port with the arcade unit - buy a 20gb or 60 gb drive from amazon.com or best buy.
no need to buy an entire new console.
Which type of nursing is the best to specialize in? advice!?
I'm taking my RN, and I'm not sure where i want to specialize.
i love medical nursing, and I'm working on: GI/Detox, Cardiology, Renal wards as an LPN.
i also love psychiatry nursing too..
advice please!Which type of nursing is the best to specialize in? advice!?
You may need to go one choice at a time. Got to a specialization in which you will shine not make serious mistakesWhich type of nursing is the best to specialize in? advice!?
Take the one that's less stressful for you. The one that is easier.You always can change your mind later on.
i love medical nursing, and I'm working on: GI/Detox, Cardiology, Renal wards as an LPN.
i also love psychiatry nursing too..
advice please!Which type of nursing is the best to specialize in? advice!?
You may need to go one choice at a time. Got to a specialization in which you will shine not make serious mistakesWhich type of nursing is the best to specialize in? advice!?
Take the one that's less stressful for you. The one that is easier.You always can change your mind later on.
I need hair advice? Ten points best answer.?
I have thin, fine hair and I really wanted to get my hair heavily layered, also called a scene hairstyle. Will alot of layers look bad on thin hair? And can someone give me some pictures of lots of layers on thin hair? Not too dramatic but defiantly not too plain. Thanks in advance.I need hair advice? Ten points best answer.?
http://www.zimbio.com/Long+Layered+Hairs鈥?/a>
have a look at other hairstyles alsoI need hair advice? Ten points best answer.?
i have thin hair and a lot of layer and really it doesnt look bad at all.
and for good pictures go to www.photobucket.com and look up scene hair or google www.madradhair.com
Layered hair would look really nice on someone with thin hair because the layers would show a lot!
You should definetaly get the layers!!
I was in the same boat as you. I got my hair cut with lots of heavy layers and it worked really well. I have thin hair too. I loved having my hair cut in layers it was so fun to play with, the possibilities are endless of what you can do with it. Yes you should go for it. It works really well and I t is just something that you will be really happy with!
Here are some pics......
http://www.maryforrest.com/images/weddin鈥?/a>
http://www.hairfinder.com/articles2005/l鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>
http://www.salonbliss.com/images/staff/T鈥?/a>
I love the last one the most ;)
Hope I Helped:)
Personally having very thin hair myself and looking at the links sent, I don't think people realize that most of those cuts are done on people with a normal + hair thickness.
My hair is about as thick as a nickel is round. Layers make my hair look even thiner.
If you want a layered look, I would think about a weave.
Here's a pic of thin hair with layers...
http://www.ukhairdressers.com/style/inde鈥?/a>
I think it's really pretty, but it's not very ';scene'; looking. For scene hair, all you have to do is tease it and it will look a lot fuller.
Hope I helped. (:
read this...someone asks wat hair cut is good for thin hair, and if layers look good. the answer tells u wat some good cuts for ppl with thin hair
im sure it will even though i don't know much about hair.LOL.
Honestly, i don't think it'll look good. I know what your talking about but usually that only works out beautifully on thicker hair. My friend has really fine hair and she did that, but it doesn't look to good.
I don't really know but it sounds like it will be good for your hair.
Yeah it will look fine it will give give it more body and volume.
Nicole Kidman has really fine hair
here are some pics:
http://www.hairstylesdesign.com/gallery/鈥?/a>
if you go for it you should use a maximum hold hairspray as well. just flip your head over and spray the underside of your hair. that way it will look fuller without looking stiff on top.
of course it will look good on thin hair
wait I'm going to get the pics
http://www.zimbio.com/Long+Layered+Hairs鈥?/a>
have a look at other hairstyles alsoI need hair advice? Ten points best answer.?
i have thin hair and a lot of layer and really it doesnt look bad at all.
and for good pictures go to www.photobucket.com and look up scene hair or google www.madradhair.com
Layered hair would look really nice on someone with thin hair because the layers would show a lot!
You should definetaly get the layers!!
I was in the same boat as you. I got my hair cut with lots of heavy layers and it worked really well. I have thin hair too. I loved having my hair cut in layers it was so fun to play with, the possibilities are endless of what you can do with it. Yes you should go for it. It works really well and I t is just something that you will be really happy with!
Here are some pics......
http://www.maryforrest.com/images/weddin鈥?/a>
http://www.hairfinder.com/articles2005/l鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>
http://images.google.ca/imgres?imgurl=ht鈥?/a>
http://www.salonbliss.com/images/staff/T鈥?/a>
I love the last one the most ;)
Hope I Helped:)
Personally having very thin hair myself and looking at the links sent, I don't think people realize that most of those cuts are done on people with a normal + hair thickness.
My hair is about as thick as a nickel is round. Layers make my hair look even thiner.
If you want a layered look, I would think about a weave.
Here's a pic of thin hair with layers...
http://www.ukhairdressers.com/style/inde鈥?/a>
I think it's really pretty, but it's not very ';scene'; looking. For scene hair, all you have to do is tease it and it will look a lot fuller.
Hope I helped. (:
read this...someone asks wat hair cut is good for thin hair, and if layers look good. the answer tells u wat some good cuts for ppl with thin hair
im sure it will even though i don't know much about hair.LOL.
Honestly, i don't think it'll look good. I know what your talking about but usually that only works out beautifully on thicker hair. My friend has really fine hair and she did that, but it doesn't look to good.
I don't really know but it sounds like it will be good for your hair.
Yeah it will look fine it will give give it more body and volume.
Nicole Kidman has really fine hair
here are some pics:
http://www.hairstylesdesign.com/gallery/鈥?/a>
if you go for it you should use a maximum hold hairspray as well. just flip your head over and spray the underside of your hair. that way it will look fuller without looking stiff on top.
of course it will look good on thin hair
wait I'm going to get the pics
A present for my best friend..... Need advice....?
I am best friends with her already one year..
I want to give her a Present? Do you have any
ideas what I could give.. not really expencive stuff.A present for my best friend..... Need advice....?
On my best friend's birthday, I folded stars for her and in each star, I wrote one fact about her. For example, in one of them I wrote, ';You don't like to rely on other people.'; It was pretty hard to come up with 100 facts about my friend, so that's why if you do choose to do this, you should start early.
Star paper is pretty cheap if you get them in little gift shops in Chinatown, and a jar for stars would usually cost about 4 dollars.
I want to give her a Present? Do you have any
ideas what I could give.. not really expencive stuff.A present for my best friend..... Need advice....?
On my best friend's birthday, I folded stars for her and in each star, I wrote one fact about her. For example, in one of them I wrote, ';You don't like to rely on other people.'; It was pretty hard to come up with 100 facts about my friend, so that's why if you do choose to do this, you should start early.
Star paper is pretty cheap if you get them in little gift shops in Chinatown, and a jar for stars would usually cost about 4 dollars.
How to ask her for her number in a correct/best way - Girls Please advice! - Thanks!?
I have been chatting online w/ this girl for about a week. I have met her in the past and now would like to start hanging out w/ her. I asked her about her cell number, but she said she didn't have one yet since she didn't have a job. Could I say the following and she could give me her home telephone number so that we could meet up sometimes....
I鈥檓a on my way to work, but if you鈥檇 like, I didn鈥檛 mention my #, (00000 cell) call me later if you鈥檇 like, I should be able to talk after 6 or you can give me your # and I can call, however you鈥檇 like :) and lets see if we can try to schedule to meet up sometime to at least propertly meet sometime this week or something.
PS. She does like me.
How does this sound? How should i type it up to her?
THanks!How to ask her for her number in a correct/best way - Girls Please advice! - Thanks!?
that is WAYYYY too much info u just gave her. To be honest, just keep it short. Ask if her is she is up to meeting sometime this week. Depending on that answer , be like do you have a no. I can reach you at later so we can confirm details. and if she says no, be like ooh, ok, and wait until ya'll meet. Trust me, don't say all that **** you wrote, it kinda sounds crazy lolHow to ask her for her number in a correct/best way - Girls Please advice! - Thanks!?
this isn't rocket science. If she does already like you then you need to be straight up and ask her for her number. Don't sound wishy washy about it because then you sound like you lack confidence. Instead like I said just be straight forward and you'll be surprised how easy it is.
Thats good girls like to feel in power but dont use words like schedule and properly meet. if your typing it your probably not on your way to work
Good job! Give her your number and leave the ball in her court!
just do it, you'll learn
Desperate!
She's putting on the brakes man. Respectfully back off before she blocks you. There's nothing more annoying then gum in your hair.
Everyday when I leave work I think about on my way home I think of things i would like to say and i wish i had your number to call you and say these things to you. I love our means of conversation because it takes alot to take the time to type out how you are feeling, but I would really love just to hear your voice, it would make my day to hear the loving words that you type across my screen flow from your beautiful lips.
I don't know if this is the kind of person you are But if a guy said this to me i'l give him my number.
i like it but dont try to jump in that much. what i mean is see if she ask you out first so it wont seem like you just want her to go out with you and moving to fast for her.
GOOD LUCK
P.S pick my answer
give her your number and ask for her number.
Yeah, what you said sounds great. It is not pushy or flirty or demanding. It is sweet and sounds very sincere.
Well im not sure. you should do what you want to do.
if you kno for a fact that she does like you then go for it yeah type her that... thats good
tell her u want to talk 2 her in person and then ask her if u can call her sometime
dont.
Just say, ';how can we talk with each other in the evening (or whenever), i like to hear your voice....';
I don't ever 'ask' for a phone #, i put her in the position of offering it or not.
Thats how you know she wants to give it to you and not that you had to ask (beg) for it. If she says ';i really dont like to talk after 6';.....or whatever thats her way of saying no or that maybe she is so poor she has no home ph# or cph.
Chances are she is married or involved. If this wasn't the case - she would have given you her number. The whole no work/no cell phone line sounds fishy to me.
just be like id really like to talk to you again can i please get your #
the first part was good but dont be too specific about the time.. seems like your too available but just tell her to leave a voicemail if your not there and that you will call her back if u dont answer.. Good luck!
what you wrote above is nice ...she should get the message or straght out just ask her 4 her #
good luck wish u the best =)
HI IAM BRITTANY I HAD THAT DONE PLENTY OF TIMES... WHAT YOU DO IS GET TO ONE ANOTHER GIVE YOUR PHONE NUBER DONT RUSH IN A RELATIONSHIP IT WONT WORK TRUST ME.....JUST GO UP TO HER AND SAY DO OU WANT TO HAVE LUNCH WITH ME AND THEN CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER AND ITS NOT HARD AND IF SHE LIKES YOU THEN GET TO KNOW HER AND LET HER GET TO KNOW YOU AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL DONT RUSH
Dude listen... If she's not willing to suck, ****, cook and clean for you, she's worthless. Move on! Find another broad who is worthy. Don't chase that's what girls want. Dude sit back and hand pick the girls you want to date then treat them like complete dirt. They will keep coming back for more.
I鈥檓a on my way to work, but if you鈥檇 like, I didn鈥檛 mention my #, (00000 cell) call me later if you鈥檇 like, I should be able to talk after 6 or you can give me your # and I can call, however you鈥檇 like :) and lets see if we can try to schedule to meet up sometime to at least propertly meet sometime this week or something.
PS. She does like me.
How does this sound? How should i type it up to her?
THanks!How to ask her for her number in a correct/best way - Girls Please advice! - Thanks!?
that is WAYYYY too much info u just gave her. To be honest, just keep it short. Ask if her is she is up to meeting sometime this week. Depending on that answer , be like do you have a no. I can reach you at later so we can confirm details. and if she says no, be like ooh, ok, and wait until ya'll meet. Trust me, don't say all that **** you wrote, it kinda sounds crazy lolHow to ask her for her number in a correct/best way - Girls Please advice! - Thanks!?
this isn't rocket science. If she does already like you then you need to be straight up and ask her for her number. Don't sound wishy washy about it because then you sound like you lack confidence. Instead like I said just be straight forward and you'll be surprised how easy it is.
Thats good girls like to feel in power but dont use words like schedule and properly meet. if your typing it your probably not on your way to work
Good job! Give her your number and leave the ball in her court!
just do it, you'll learn
Desperate!
She's putting on the brakes man. Respectfully back off before she blocks you. There's nothing more annoying then gum in your hair.
Everyday when I leave work I think about on my way home I think of things i would like to say and i wish i had your number to call you and say these things to you. I love our means of conversation because it takes alot to take the time to type out how you are feeling, but I would really love just to hear your voice, it would make my day to hear the loving words that you type across my screen flow from your beautiful lips.
I don't know if this is the kind of person you are But if a guy said this to me i'l give him my number.
i like it but dont try to jump in that much. what i mean is see if she ask you out first so it wont seem like you just want her to go out with you and moving to fast for her.
GOOD LUCK
P.S pick my answer
give her your number and ask for her number.
Yeah, what you said sounds great. It is not pushy or flirty or demanding. It is sweet and sounds very sincere.
Well im not sure. you should do what you want to do.
if you kno for a fact that she does like you then go for it yeah type her that... thats good
tell her u want to talk 2 her in person and then ask her if u can call her sometime
dont.
Just say, ';how can we talk with each other in the evening (or whenever), i like to hear your voice....';
I don't ever 'ask' for a phone #, i put her in the position of offering it or not.
Thats how you know she wants to give it to you and not that you had to ask (beg) for it. If she says ';i really dont like to talk after 6';.....or whatever thats her way of saying no or that maybe she is so poor she has no home ph# or cph.
Chances are she is married or involved. If this wasn't the case - she would have given you her number. The whole no work/no cell phone line sounds fishy to me.
just be like id really like to talk to you again can i please get your #
the first part was good but dont be too specific about the time.. seems like your too available but just tell her to leave a voicemail if your not there and that you will call her back if u dont answer.. Good luck!
what you wrote above is nice ...she should get the message or straght out just ask her 4 her #
good luck wish u the best =)
HI IAM BRITTANY I HAD THAT DONE PLENTY OF TIMES... WHAT YOU DO IS GET TO ONE ANOTHER GIVE YOUR PHONE NUBER DONT RUSH IN A RELATIONSHIP IT WONT WORK TRUST ME.....JUST GO UP TO HER AND SAY DO OU WANT TO HAVE LUNCH WITH ME AND THEN CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER AND ITS NOT HARD AND IF SHE LIKES YOU THEN GET TO KNOW HER AND LET HER GET TO KNOW YOU AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL DONT RUSH
Dude listen... If she's not willing to suck, ****, cook and clean for you, she's worthless. Move on! Find another broad who is worthy. Don't chase that's what girls want. Dude sit back and hand pick the girls you want to date then treat them like complete dirt. They will keep coming back for more.
I need advice my best friend told me he was gay.....?
and i told him i was cool with it thinking everyhting would be normal you know? Plus i couldnt just ditch him after all weve been through and since hes done alot for me. But the thing is now hes hitting on me all the time. And i DONT like it. I tried to tell him to stop in the nicest way possible but he wouldnt . I dont want to be mean and have him mad at me.. How can I get him to stop?I need advice my best friend told me he was gay.....?
If you've tried nice, go blunt. Say something to the effect of ';I support you and love you as a friend, but if you continue to behave in such a way that makes me uncomfortable, I can't be around you anymore. We are friends, but what you are doing is making me uncomfortable. Please stop.';
Anyone who knowingly makes you uncomfortable is not a good friend. If he can't be respectful of you and your comfort zone, ditch him, he doesn't deserve you as a friend.I need advice my best friend told me he was gay.....?
Tell him once more, and be serious. Be firm and be like ';Look dude, we cool, but if you continue hitting on me, we won't be anymore!'; And leave it at that. Let him be the one to come to you. If he's back to your buddy, then cool, but the moment he starts up at it again, ditch him! That's cool for him, but if you don't like it, then he should respect you. Ever think he may be just playing with you? He's probably uneasy and just coming out the closet could be tough. try to listen and support him, because hes your buddy, but at the same time, he's gonna have to come correct and not at you like that. Just talk to him, I bet he's just messing with you! Good luck! Remember, if y'all are really friends, then you two will make it past this!
I went though this a number of years ago with one of my best friends that I grew up with. When he told me he was gay I couldn't accept it at first, but later I did. After that he starting hitting on my friends, and sometimes me. I kept telling him to knock it off and that we weren't gay, but his response was always: ';well, nobody is at first.'; I finally quit hanging out with him and over the years we lost touch.
I still wish him the best, but I can safely say that I tried, and the reason our friendship ended wasn't my fault.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but that's how it went down with me.pores lower eye liner
If you've tried nice, go blunt. Say something to the effect of ';I support you and love you as a friend, but if you continue to behave in such a way that makes me uncomfortable, I can't be around you anymore. We are friends, but what you are doing is making me uncomfortable. Please stop.';
Anyone who knowingly makes you uncomfortable is not a good friend. If he can't be respectful of you and your comfort zone, ditch him, he doesn't deserve you as a friend.I need advice my best friend told me he was gay.....?
Tell him once more, and be serious. Be firm and be like ';Look dude, we cool, but if you continue hitting on me, we won't be anymore!'; And leave it at that. Let him be the one to come to you. If he's back to your buddy, then cool, but the moment he starts up at it again, ditch him! That's cool for him, but if you don't like it, then he should respect you. Ever think he may be just playing with you? He's probably uneasy and just coming out the closet could be tough. try to listen and support him, because hes your buddy, but at the same time, he's gonna have to come correct and not at you like that. Just talk to him, I bet he's just messing with you! Good luck! Remember, if y'all are really friends, then you two will make it past this!
I went though this a number of years ago with one of my best friends that I grew up with. When he told me he was gay I couldn't accept it at first, but later I did. After that he starting hitting on my friends, and sometimes me. I kept telling him to knock it off and that we weren't gay, but his response was always: ';well, nobody is at first.'; I finally quit hanging out with him and over the years we lost touch.
I still wish him the best, but I can safely say that I tried, and the reason our friendship ended wasn't my fault.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but that's how it went down with me.
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I need honest and safe advice...What is the best way to handle this...?
To make a long story short, there is this guy in my apt. complex that I have seen around for over 3 years. He's always trying to get my attintion and talk to me. I would just smile and go about my way. One day while I had my nephew with me (who's 2) he called me over to help him with something. I went to his patio but refused to go into his house (even though he kept trying to get me to go in) he asked me to help him untangle a chain that was wrapped around a ring. As I was looking at the ring he was sitting on the edge of his patio and asked could I keep a secret. I said yes. He then pulled out a ';crack'; pipe and in front of me and my nephew lit it up! As I grabbed my nephew to run away, he started to tell me what he wanted to do to me and used his ';mouth'; as a visual aid! I went straight to the landlord and reported it. She assured me that it would be taken care of. This was a month ago and the man is still here! She lied to me! She told me that ';He doesn't have anywhere to go';I need honest and safe advice...What is the best way to handle this...?
Sister, you are in a truly dangerous situation. A person who uses crack is not thinking correctly when under its influence. I have also read where even police have trouble dealing with them because the crack seems to increase their insane power for a time.
I would recommend that you take two actions. But I also recommend that you pray before implementing them.
First I would go the law authorities and file a complaint. You are not, in my opinion, bound to keep your promise. Promises do not include dangerous or threatening situations. File a report with the police about this incident. Tell them that his use of crack is a danger to your family and others in the building.
Ask the police how to file a restraining order. If the court grants that order he will be required to stay a certain number of yards away from you at all times. If he comes closer and does not immediately withdraw, he is subject to arrest.
Secondly, I would recommend that your husband take action on this. A Christian husband is to protect his wife and daughter. I'm not talking about physical action. He in my opinion should go over there when the man is not on crack. Without threatening him (that could make him subject to arrest), he should explain to the man that he knows what happened and will not tolerate any further contact between you and his daughter. He should explain that if any contact is made he will personally file charges and follow up on them.
I guess there is a third action I would recommend. You husband needs to sit down with the landlord and explain that it is unacceptable that she would buy into such a shabby lie.
Unless you live in the only apartment in town and there are no homes available, he can find a place to live. Remind her that if he stopped paying rent for three months she would certainly help him out the door!
He should tell her that her inaction is threatening you and your daughter. He should also tell her that a man who uses crack is a threat to her and every person in the building. He should tell her that it also is a violation of her responsibility as a landlord, a Christian and a pastor.
I would suggest that he tell her that he came to her first, because he loves her as a relative (assuming he does). But, if she doesn't take appropriate action, he will go to the senior pastor and the board.
All of this of course should be done in Christian love.
In the meantime, protect yourself. Get a can of pepper spray, if it is legal in your state (it is not legal in all states). Get a device that emits a loud alarm and carry them with you. If your daughter is old enough to use them safely get one for her.
God bless you, sister.
Pastor John
Addendum: Sister, it may well be too late for the police to get a search warrant for the crack pipe. But they should still keep an eye on him. Unless he makes his own crack, he has to have a supplier. Their responsibility is to find that out.
Secondly, it is never too late for a restraining order. You simply tell the police and the courts that he made sexual overtures to you and that he uses crack. You indicate that there have been other times that he has watched you and/or your daughter. The police will tell you if you have enough for a restraining order. If not, hire an attorney and let him handle the matter.
I apologize, sister, I failed to do my research earlier. If your hasband has had a ';relapse'; he must have a medical condition. If that condition is threatening, it might be wise for him not to talk with this man.
Also, while the police may not be able to get a search warrant, a landlord does have a reasonable right to inspect her property. She can ask her attorney whether this constitutes such a time and what she can and cannot do.I need honest and safe advice...What is the best way to handle this...?
POLICE!
What makes you think that it is too late to file a complaint with the the police? It isn't. Just tell them that you filed a complaint with the landlord who told you that she would take care of the matter, but didn't. You can probably have a restraining order placed on him so that he can not come near you or your family.
You did nothing wrong. He did. The landlord lied and should be on your side not his. What if he rapes someone? Then he will have somewhere to go. Prison. Don't be afraid of him, you have the upper hand.
You and your husband need to stay away from him and let the police take care of it. People who are full of drugs are very dangerous. However, in his non drugged up state he is a coward because real men don't act that way.
Please keep your distance from this person!! I believe that from what you are saying that he's dangerous!! I think you should talk to your pastor and see if he would be willing to intervene!! That kind of person can be desparate, keep all of your doors and windows locked!! I can't believe that your landlord would want that kind of thing going on there, it's trouble waiting to happen!! My thoughts and prayers are with you!! You may want to file a report with the police so at least it will be on record in case there are any problems!! Keep Safe!!
Anjel, this is a frightening situation for sure! You have some great answers here to think about and pray on.
I will add if you are getting mail or walking alone around your building do so in daylight. Carry a cell phone. And make sure your daughter is with you or your husband when out near the building.
Your first priority is your families safety- I would not hesitate reporting this incident to the police. In the long run it may also get this poor soul some help that he so obviously needs.
Be safe!
Unfortunately, the same landlord/tenant laws which protect you, also protect him unless it is stated specifically that drug use, sexual harassment, etc. is a breach of those laws. If that's the situation you should make a report of the next offense to the police as a basis for civil legal action should it reach that point. The more immediate solution lies within either the landlord, or your husband. I would not hesitate to put the landlord on notice of my intent to pursue litigation if necessary. It is not a situation which should be tolerated regardless of whether the man has a place to go. In the meantime, go get your mail. Don't allow this man the luxury of thinking he has intimidated you. Just be cautious around him.
All I can say is pray about it. Let the Lord order your steps. This may be a trial, Angel that the Lord what to see how you handle yourself like Job. He'll give you double for your trouble. Let him direct you and tell you what to do.
Go to your pastor and tell him what happened. Also, let it be known that if something isn't done that you will let everyone in the church know about the incident before you switch churches.
Anjel, your landlord obviously doesn't care anything about the safety and well being of her tenants. She's all about the mighty dollar. You should have reported this to the police, and your husband. They would have handled this man very differently. Stay away from him. he may be trying to catch you at a time you least expect and cuase harm to you or your nephew. Never let your guard down for an instant. If you need back up, I'm on a plane ASAP.
**Edit**
Never do business with family.
Sister, you are in a truly dangerous situation. A person who uses crack is not thinking correctly when under its influence. I have also read where even police have trouble dealing with them because the crack seems to increase their insane power for a time.
I would recommend that you take two actions. But I also recommend that you pray before implementing them.
First I would go the law authorities and file a complaint. You are not, in my opinion, bound to keep your promise. Promises do not include dangerous or threatening situations. File a report with the police about this incident. Tell them that his use of crack is a danger to your family and others in the building.
Ask the police how to file a restraining order. If the court grants that order he will be required to stay a certain number of yards away from you at all times. If he comes closer and does not immediately withdraw, he is subject to arrest.
Secondly, I would recommend that your husband take action on this. A Christian husband is to protect his wife and daughter. I'm not talking about physical action. He in my opinion should go over there when the man is not on crack. Without threatening him (that could make him subject to arrest), he should explain to the man that he knows what happened and will not tolerate any further contact between you and his daughter. He should explain that if any contact is made he will personally file charges and follow up on them.
I guess there is a third action I would recommend. You husband needs to sit down with the landlord and explain that it is unacceptable that she would buy into such a shabby lie.
Unless you live in the only apartment in town and there are no homes available, he can find a place to live. Remind her that if he stopped paying rent for three months she would certainly help him out the door!
He should tell her that her inaction is threatening you and your daughter. He should also tell her that a man who uses crack is a threat to her and every person in the building. He should tell her that it also is a violation of her responsibility as a landlord, a Christian and a pastor.
I would suggest that he tell her that he came to her first, because he loves her as a relative (assuming he does). But, if she doesn't take appropriate action, he will go to the senior pastor and the board.
All of this of course should be done in Christian love.
In the meantime, protect yourself. Get a can of pepper spray, if it is legal in your state (it is not legal in all states). Get a device that emits a loud alarm and carry them with you. If your daughter is old enough to use them safely get one for her.
God bless you, sister.
Pastor John
Addendum: Sister, it may well be too late for the police to get a search warrant for the crack pipe. But they should still keep an eye on him. Unless he makes his own crack, he has to have a supplier. Their responsibility is to find that out.
Secondly, it is never too late for a restraining order. You simply tell the police and the courts that he made sexual overtures to you and that he uses crack. You indicate that there have been other times that he has watched you and/or your daughter. The police will tell you if you have enough for a restraining order. If not, hire an attorney and let him handle the matter.
I apologize, sister, I failed to do my research earlier. If your hasband has had a ';relapse'; he must have a medical condition. If that condition is threatening, it might be wise for him not to talk with this man.
Also, while the police may not be able to get a search warrant, a landlord does have a reasonable right to inspect her property. She can ask her attorney whether this constitutes such a time and what she can and cannot do.I need honest and safe advice...What is the best way to handle this...?
POLICE!
What makes you think that it is too late to file a complaint with the the police? It isn't. Just tell them that you filed a complaint with the landlord who told you that she would take care of the matter, but didn't. You can probably have a restraining order placed on him so that he can not come near you or your family.
You did nothing wrong. He did. The landlord lied and should be on your side not his. What if he rapes someone? Then he will have somewhere to go. Prison. Don't be afraid of him, you have the upper hand.
You and your husband need to stay away from him and let the police take care of it. People who are full of drugs are very dangerous. However, in his non drugged up state he is a coward because real men don't act that way.
Please keep your distance from this person!! I believe that from what you are saying that he's dangerous!! I think you should talk to your pastor and see if he would be willing to intervene!! That kind of person can be desparate, keep all of your doors and windows locked!! I can't believe that your landlord would want that kind of thing going on there, it's trouble waiting to happen!! My thoughts and prayers are with you!! You may want to file a report with the police so at least it will be on record in case there are any problems!! Keep Safe!!
Anjel, this is a frightening situation for sure! You have some great answers here to think about and pray on.
I will add if you are getting mail or walking alone around your building do so in daylight. Carry a cell phone. And make sure your daughter is with you or your husband when out near the building.
Your first priority is your families safety- I would not hesitate reporting this incident to the police. In the long run it may also get this poor soul some help that he so obviously needs.
Be safe!
Unfortunately, the same landlord/tenant laws which protect you, also protect him unless it is stated specifically that drug use, sexual harassment, etc. is a breach of those laws. If that's the situation you should make a report of the next offense to the police as a basis for civil legal action should it reach that point. The more immediate solution lies within either the landlord, or your husband. I would not hesitate to put the landlord on notice of my intent to pursue litigation if necessary. It is not a situation which should be tolerated regardless of whether the man has a place to go. In the meantime, go get your mail. Don't allow this man the luxury of thinking he has intimidated you. Just be cautious around him.
All I can say is pray about it. Let the Lord order your steps. This may be a trial, Angel that the Lord what to see how you handle yourself like Job. He'll give you double for your trouble. Let him direct you and tell you what to do.
Go to your pastor and tell him what happened. Also, let it be known that if something isn't done that you will let everyone in the church know about the incident before you switch churches.
Anjel, your landlord obviously doesn't care anything about the safety and well being of her tenants. She's all about the mighty dollar. You should have reported this to the police, and your husband. They would have handled this man very differently. Stay away from him. he may be trying to catch you at a time you least expect and cuase harm to you or your nephew. Never let your guard down for an instant. If you need back up, I'm on a plane ASAP.
**Edit**
Never do business with family.
I am obssesed with my best friend. I need Advice. Please Help!?
i am a 17 year old male and my bestfriend is a 16 year old male. i like to hangout with him more then any of my other friends. i constanly text him, call him, and ask him to hangout. we have been bestfriends for almost 3 years already. but he says i am very annoying. which i am. i constaly need to talk to him. what does this mean? is this normal? how can i stop being obssesed with him?I am obssesed with my best friend. I need Advice. Please Help!?
Um, have you maybe questioned your sexuality? It might just be a bromance. :P
Make new friends, or spend more time with other friends you already have. Open up to them, so that you don't have to depend on this guy for everything. Make plans with girls, maybe ask one out if you think she's worth it. See how it goes. Girlfriends are always fun and time-consuming, plus you'll have someone you can rely on and trust.
Just be more open to new people and your other friends. Chill on this guy for a bit. :) Good luck!I am obssesed with my best friend. I need Advice. Please Help!?
you are probably gay
it's normal part of growing up and living. embrace it, not fear it
yeah your obssesed... haha but idont know what to say just try to hang out with other people besides that one person.
Forgive me for asking but do you maybe like him more than a friend? If so, that's not an obsession you just like him. If you are sure you don't like him then try spending time with other people maybe girls you like. Get a girlfriend, they love spending loads of times with their boyfriend :)
omg i was exactly like you with my ex best friend (shes a girl like me) and this friendship became toxic that today all finished and its better that way really so really if your obsessed with him get rid of him im telling you, youll feel MUCH better cuz this person has become your life and its aint cool
Um, have you maybe questioned your sexuality? It might just be a bromance. :P
Make new friends, or spend more time with other friends you already have. Open up to them, so that you don't have to depend on this guy for everything. Make plans with girls, maybe ask one out if you think she's worth it. See how it goes. Girlfriends are always fun and time-consuming, plus you'll have someone you can rely on and trust.
Just be more open to new people and your other friends. Chill on this guy for a bit. :) Good luck!I am obssesed with my best friend. I need Advice. Please Help!?
you are probably gay
it's normal part of growing up and living. embrace it, not fear it
yeah your obssesed... haha but idont know what to say just try to hang out with other people besides that one person.
Forgive me for asking but do you maybe like him more than a friend? If so, that's not an obsession you just like him. If you are sure you don't like him then try spending time with other people maybe girls you like. Get a girlfriend, they love spending loads of times with their boyfriend :)
omg i was exactly like you with my ex best friend (shes a girl like me) and this friendship became toxic that today all finished and its better that way really so really if your obsessed with him get rid of him im telling you, youll feel MUCH better cuz this person has become your life and its aint cool
Hes not over his ex..advice? 10pts, best answer.?
So my boyfriend still loves his ex..
and im not sure how to get him to stop,
she moved so they don't see each other
but she texts him alot
saying how she misses and loves him.
%26amp;%26amp; he even says he still loves her.
i dont want us to break up.
but how can i get him
to want me more than her?Hes not over his ex..advice? 10pts, best answer.?
You have to let him go. He is still in love with her and her for him. You are just caught in the middle but in this equation there is no you. One of these days they may cross again and get back together and where does that leave you?
I know you like him but you will never be worth more than his ex. What they had was special and if he can't let go of her than he never will while he is with you. I think he is glad to have you around as company but right now he isn't ready for a new love. You have to let go now or you will get hurt later in the future. Exes can't move on if they keep contacting each other and telling their feelings to each other. If he can't let her go now than he never will. So just tell him you know that he has some issues he still has to deal with, and that you don't want to be part of the healing process. Just tell him maybe down the line when he deals with his issues and his ex to give you a call when he is ready.
Don't live a lie thinking he will get over her because of you. Right now to him you will never compare. You can't make him want you more because thats not where his heart is right now. You can't make someone feel a certain way, but its up to that person to accept reality and follow their heart.Hes not over his ex..advice? 10pts, best answer.?
sweetie if he still talks to her and texts her wat makes u think hes ever going to get over her? there is no reason that u should be his play thing while hes still in love with someone else.. dont u see the moment they get back in touch hes back to her and then what?? just let that go, if he loves her hes just fuking u till she gets back.. he knows that he can have it all.. and ur letting him have it like that
good luck
Plain and SIMPLE, you tell him to make a choice! Why would you want to be with someone who is telling someone else that he loves them? This boy is disrespecting you big time. So immediately give him an ultimatum....break it off completely or get out of your life.
Don't put yourself in this kind of situation... you shouldn't have to fight for your boyfriend's affection. Let those two be love sick over eachother, and move on.
he doesn't want you more than her. And he won't ever want you more than her. Dump him. It's not worth it.
and im not sure how to get him to stop,
she moved so they don't see each other
but she texts him alot
saying how she misses and loves him.
%26amp;%26amp; he even says he still loves her.
i dont want us to break up.
but how can i get him
to want me more than her?Hes not over his ex..advice? 10pts, best answer.?
You have to let him go. He is still in love with her and her for him. You are just caught in the middle but in this equation there is no you. One of these days they may cross again and get back together and where does that leave you?
I know you like him but you will never be worth more than his ex. What they had was special and if he can't let go of her than he never will while he is with you. I think he is glad to have you around as company but right now he isn't ready for a new love. You have to let go now or you will get hurt later in the future. Exes can't move on if they keep contacting each other and telling their feelings to each other. If he can't let her go now than he never will. So just tell him you know that he has some issues he still has to deal with, and that you don't want to be part of the healing process. Just tell him maybe down the line when he deals with his issues and his ex to give you a call when he is ready.
Don't live a lie thinking he will get over her because of you. Right now to him you will never compare. You can't make him want you more because thats not where his heart is right now. You can't make someone feel a certain way, but its up to that person to accept reality and follow their heart.Hes not over his ex..advice? 10pts, best answer.?
sweetie if he still talks to her and texts her wat makes u think hes ever going to get over her? there is no reason that u should be his play thing while hes still in love with someone else.. dont u see the moment they get back in touch hes back to her and then what?? just let that go, if he loves her hes just fuking u till she gets back.. he knows that he can have it all.. and ur letting him have it like that
good luck
Plain and SIMPLE, you tell him to make a choice! Why would you want to be with someone who is telling someone else that he loves them? This boy is disrespecting you big time. So immediately give him an ultimatum....break it off completely or get out of your life.
Don't put yourself in this kind of situation... you shouldn't have to fight for your boyfriend's affection. Let those two be love sick over eachother, and move on.
he doesn't want you more than her. And he won't ever want you more than her. Dump him. It's not worth it.
Very Tough situation with my best friend, i fear for him, advice needed
My best friend and i have been friends for 15 years, we are 22,23 year old males. growing up we were always against drugs, smoking, drinking. my friends father is an extreme alcoholic who is in terrible condition and got fired from his job years ago. my friend goes to school and work while also taking care of his preteen nephews because his sister(there mother) is incapable of tending to them all the time, so the chore falls on him. recently it has been brought to my attention that my best friend has been hanging out with a 19 year old male who used to do marijuana and drugs when he was 16,17,18 but has supposedly stopped now, this person dropped out of community college and hangs out with other questionable people some much older(40's). my friend recently told me he drinks smirnoff(after his father is an alcoholic) my friend said he values my friendship but doesnt want me to tell him what to do, because he is a 22 year old adult. his personality is shy an quiet and is a huge follower, when with others. im fearful for my friends safety when he is around this one person because if he did marijuana at 16, who knows what else he is capable of, and i am also fearful that he is befriending my best friend cause he sees he has a steady job and is a follower and maybe he feels he can convince him with his assets to 'help him out' doing stuff illegally. i am friendly with my friends mother and want to tell her about this, i already talked to my friend and he said everything will be fine and not to tell him what to do, but he is acting very differently than years past and again im fearful for his safety. should i tell his mother about this knowing it could get the situation resolved, i am not afraid of losing him as a friend cause he wants to be my friend more than the other way, ive always looked out for him cause of his growing up and shy personality, i feel i need to do something now, please anyone, advice is so needed and appreciated, please help me with this, its stressing me out immensely and i cant sleep. thanks.Very Tough situation with my best friend, i fear for him, advice needed
First off, stick to being his friend. People go through phases where they sometimes hang otu with less desirable people, it's a bit of kinda seeign what a different lifestyle would be like. Even though alot of people may do this, not many stick around with those other people, and they typically end up resorting back to their older friends. If you tell his mom, I think it would just help to push him away from you and closer to the other guy, so try to keep it just between you and him when you talk about it. Also, try inviting him do do more thigns with you and pther people you like(I'm not sure how much he hangs out with you or with the other guy, so yeah).
Hey, I have a issue with my best friend as well....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Very Tough situation with my best friend, i fear for him, advice needed
the way i see it, and i'm not just saying this to be funny, you have two options. you can just keep being his friend no matter what he does, and let him know how you feel about what he's doing. or you can just let him go. let him live his life the way he wishes. if he is your friend, and he wants to be your friend, he will come back to you. if he is your friend and you try to 'rule' or direct his life for him you may drive him farther away.pores lower eye liner
First off, stick to being his friend. People go through phases where they sometimes hang otu with less desirable people, it's a bit of kinda seeign what a different lifestyle would be like. Even though alot of people may do this, not many stick around with those other people, and they typically end up resorting back to their older friends. If you tell his mom, I think it would just help to push him away from you and closer to the other guy, so try to keep it just between you and him when you talk about it. Also, try inviting him do do more thigns with you and pther people you like(I'm not sure how much he hangs out with you or with the other guy, so yeah).
Hey, I have a issue with my best friend as well....
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Very Tough situation with my best friend, i fear for him, advice needed
the way i see it, and i'm not just saying this to be funny, you have two options. you can just keep being his friend no matter what he does, and let him know how you feel about what he's doing. or you can just let him go. let him live his life the way he wishes. if he is your friend, and he wants to be your friend, he will come back to you. if he is your friend and you try to 'rule' or direct his life for him you may drive him farther away.
My best friend's mom just died, any advice?
Last night my best friend's mom passed away. My friend is in so much pain and I just don't know what to do. I was with her in the hospital the whole time, I've been offering hugs and ears but I was wondering if anyone has any additional advice? Something beyond just being there for her, because I think I've got that down.
Thanks.My best friend's mom just died, any advice?
offer to do anythign extra she might need right now like running errands, getting dinner and stuff like that.
if she says no it might just be because she would rather you stay with her, so for now just wait it out till she starts feeling betterMy best friend's mom just died, any advice?
Give her a hug when ever she feels hurt and sad.
Tell her ill always be there for you when she feels lonely
tell her your my best friend i love you :) when she feels angry
tell her a joke when shes depressed
tell her its gonna be alright, when she feels it :D
haha im 13 btw.
if my mom died, i would want my friends to leave me the hell alone...it would just be hella annoying to me..
Thanks.My best friend's mom just died, any advice?
offer to do anythign extra she might need right now like running errands, getting dinner and stuff like that.
if she says no it might just be because she would rather you stay with her, so for now just wait it out till she starts feeling betterMy best friend's mom just died, any advice?
Give her a hug when ever she feels hurt and sad.
Tell her ill always be there for you when she feels lonely
tell her your my best friend i love you :) when she feels angry
tell her a joke when shes depressed
tell her its gonna be alright, when she feels it :D
haha im 13 btw.
if my mom died, i would want my friends to leave me the hell alone...it would just be hella annoying to me..
Pls advice the best mascara! tnx?
I'm partial to Maybelline Lash Discovery Mascara. It's pretty inexpensive, and it has a small brush that picks up all the tiny lashes in the outer corner of the eye that are often missed. It makes the lashes look longer. I love it.Pls advice the best mascara! tnx?
zoom lash by MACPls advice the best mascara! tnx?
I've tried quite a few mascaras but I think the best one is Maxfactor Masterpiece (The Original) because the brush is brilliant, it doesn't clump and the colour is nice and bold!!
Cover Girl Last Blast - in the orange package!
Changed me from one I used for like 7 years that I liked, then I switched to this one!
It is awsome! And good price too.
i absoloutely LOVEEE maybelline sky high curves mascara!!
i really love the Covergirl Lash exact
it doesnt clump, leave dots, and it separates lashes!
i also really like rimmel london's magnifyer
this one is the best though
it makes your eyes look bigger and your lashes SO SO SO SO LONG!
i promise these are the best
do not get Covergirl volume exact, it leaves so many dots under your eyes
its annoying
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I LIVE by Maybeline's Great Lash!
IMPORTANT! Use the regular mascara (the kind that easily comes off with NON-oily eye makeup remover. Do NOT use waterproof!
well yesterday i bought a new mascara at tescos while helping shopping with my mum. its brilliant i had to get a new one cause all my others are dried out lol so i bought Rimmel London GlamEyes it was only 拢4 something from like 7 or 拢8. so it was the bargain of a day. not only do they sell it at tescos they sell it in superdrug boots asos and any other supermarket. the mascara brush is bendy and it gives you thick clump-free individual long lashes. its a must buy, i would definitly buy it again and advise others to buy it.. its also new. hope you find the perfect one http://www.asos.com/Rimmel-London/Rimmel鈥?/a>
Esti Lauder
stays alll dayyyyyy
I love the queen Latifah line from Covergirl. This is cheap (like $7), and it has a really great brush. If you want to spend more, MAC has really great mascara, but it is pretty costly. It also depends what kind of lashes you wan, and what kind f lashes you have.
If you want full, sort of heavy lashes, I would recommend a mascara that has a thick layered brush in black. If you want straighter, I would use a mascara with a brush that is divided, like the Covergirl one.
If your lashes are long and thick, use a brownish colored mascara. This makes your makeup look nice, but not clumpy looking. If your lashes are shorter or more spread apart, use a black or dark blue mascara. This will help your eyelashes stand out more.
Hope this helps!
Clinique it rocks it leaves lashes long a nd isnt a pain when washing off
whatever u do dont get cg lashblast it sux!
Like Shamrock said, DIORshow.
also. Badgal mascara www.benefit.com
anything by lancome.
i use a lot of mascara and have tried many many differnt ones. my favourite is maybelline xxl curl power its really good and beats any other mascara ive tried. loreal lash architect is also good but not as good as the first. x
zoom lash by MACPls advice the best mascara! tnx?
I've tried quite a few mascaras but I think the best one is Maxfactor Masterpiece (The Original) because the brush is brilliant, it doesn't clump and the colour is nice and bold!!
Cover Girl Last Blast - in the orange package!
Changed me from one I used for like 7 years that I liked, then I switched to this one!
It is awsome! And good price too.
i absoloutely LOVEEE maybelline sky high curves mascara!!
i really love the Covergirl Lash exact
it doesnt clump, leave dots, and it separates lashes!
i also really like rimmel london's magnifyer
this one is the best though
it makes your eyes look bigger and your lashes SO SO SO SO LONG!
i promise these are the best
do not get Covergirl volume exact, it leaves so many dots under your eyes
its annoying
dior diorshow
I LIVE by Maybeline's Great Lash!
IMPORTANT! Use the regular mascara (the kind that easily comes off with NON-oily eye makeup remover. Do NOT use waterproof!
well yesterday i bought a new mascara at tescos while helping shopping with my mum. its brilliant i had to get a new one cause all my others are dried out lol so i bought Rimmel London GlamEyes it was only 拢4 something from like 7 or 拢8. so it was the bargain of a day. not only do they sell it at tescos they sell it in superdrug boots asos and any other supermarket. the mascara brush is bendy and it gives you thick clump-free individual long lashes. its a must buy, i would definitly buy it again and advise others to buy it.. its also new. hope you find the perfect one http://www.asos.com/Rimmel-London/Rimmel鈥?/a>
Esti Lauder
stays alll dayyyyyy
I love the queen Latifah line from Covergirl. This is cheap (like $7), and it has a really great brush. If you want to spend more, MAC has really great mascara, but it is pretty costly. It also depends what kind of lashes you wan, and what kind f lashes you have.
If you want full, sort of heavy lashes, I would recommend a mascara that has a thick layered brush in black. If you want straighter, I would use a mascara with a brush that is divided, like the Covergirl one.
If your lashes are long and thick, use a brownish colored mascara. This makes your makeup look nice, but not clumpy looking. If your lashes are shorter or more spread apart, use a black or dark blue mascara. This will help your eyelashes stand out more.
Hope this helps!
Clinique it rocks it leaves lashes long a nd isnt a pain when washing off
whatever u do dont get cg lashblast it sux!
Like Shamrock said, DIORshow.
also. Badgal mascara www.benefit.com
anything by lancome.
i use a lot of mascara and have tried many many differnt ones. my favourite is maybelline xxl curl power its really good and beats any other mascara ive tried. loreal lash architect is also good but not as good as the first. x
Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Last week I met this girl who was taking the LSAT (a test) and we got along great and talked a couple times. The last time I talked to her was outside of her class last Wednesday. Would it be alright to wait outside her class tomorrow, ask her how the LSAT went and asked to see if we could get some coffee and get her number? We never formally introduced each other though we talked for over a half hour last week and there was definitely chemistry. Thanks!!!Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Go for it! :D
I think she'd really like seeing you waiting for her outside her classroom! It just shows that you're really interested, and when you ask how her LSAT went , she'll know you care about her.
It happens sometimes that we meet someone and instantly click, what do you know? This could be the beginning of something really nice.
So introduce yourself, tell her something nice about the way she looks that day, like a compliment or something, and I'm sure she'd love to go get some coffee with you!
Good Luck! :)
xx
Let me know how it went, once you've asked her!Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
just do what you want to do man, just be you, it is not that hard, if you know for a fact that she likes you, ask her if she would like to go get some coffee and get her number,and introduce yourself. If you think she does not like you, just talk to her a lot and try to get closer to her, you know, Good Luck, my friend.
Well not to be mean but just cause you talked for a long time doesn't mean anything.But it does seem like she likes you,and even if she doesn't,take her out and get her to like you.Life is made for taking risks,don't waste a single second of it wondering what your next move will be ok:) hope i helped!
no because that sounds desperate so you should *the next time you run into eachother* you just say hey again and say we havent met really and introduce your self, crack a couple of jokes, and ask for coffee, get to know her better, get her number....and you know the plan from there. (:
That sounds like a great plan! Asking for coffee/numbers isn't like, creepy or anything, so I don't see why she'd have a problem with it. If you did have good chemistry, and she's single, she'll probably be pretty glad you're interested. :)
Ya! ask her for her number if you like her ask her out okay that would be nice if you did and still wait by her class for her and ask about her day.Her weekend.Stuff like that she'll be glad to know you care!
Definately! It'll be a nice surprise, and I bet she likes you anyway, so it's definately worth a shot! Go for it! And besides, girls think it's super sweet when guys wait for us after classes. =]
yeah go for it. if you're FOR SURE there was chemistry though. as a girl i wouldn't think that was weird of guy to do.
i would wait a little bit longer to ask her for coffee i would try to get to know her a little bit better
well i dont thinl u should look like yre waiting for her just act casual or else she may think something yeah and go for it ask her out for a cup of coffee or somthing lol good luck =]
Yeah..I think you should! =] Just approach her and talk to her! I doubt she will turn you down! go for it! You may not have another chance! GOOD LUCK!!!
I think that would work. Me being a girl, don't go too fast or she might think you're a pig.. but I think she might like you!! Good luck!!
You sound very sincere and nice. That would be a great plan and very flattering. Good luck hon!
Yea it would be ok
If you guys talk somewhat then yea ok
Have fun and good luck
I say go for it! Who knows will happen.
yeah definitely, she would think that is really sweet, kind of like being swept of her feet. good luck!
DO IT!!! :D
good luck
Ya that would be sweet.
Sounds like a plan! (:
definitely! she'll be glad to know that you've been thinking of her.
go for it! good luck!
yeah why not?
go for it..
she is probably waiting for you to ask her :)
NICE WORK BABE .................GO FOR IT................
..DO UR THING
of course!!!!!!
cool o! ya, just do it!
yeahh totallyy goo for itt !!! :))) it is a good ideaa to do that !!
yeahh! go for it its better to try then to have never tried at all!
she seems to like you
just go for it
awww sounds sweet! i wish my bf would have done that!
GO FOR IT!!!! :] she sounds into u!! good luck!
Go for it! :D
I think she'd really like seeing you waiting for her outside her classroom! It just shows that you're really interested, and when you ask how her LSAT went , she'll know you care about her.
It happens sometimes that we meet someone and instantly click, what do you know? This could be the beginning of something really nice.
So introduce yourself, tell her something nice about the way she looks that day, like a compliment or something, and I'm sure she'd love to go get some coffee with you!
Good Luck! :)
xx
Let me know how it went, once you've asked her!Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
just do what you want to do man, just be you, it is not that hard, if you know for a fact that she likes you, ask her if she would like to go get some coffee and get her number,and introduce yourself. If you think she does not like you, just talk to her a lot and try to get closer to her, you know, Good Luck, my friend.
Well not to be mean but just cause you talked for a long time doesn't mean anything.But it does seem like she likes you,and even if she doesn't,take her out and get her to like you.Life is made for taking risks,don't waste a single second of it wondering what your next move will be ok:) hope i helped!
no because that sounds desperate so you should *the next time you run into eachother* you just say hey again and say we havent met really and introduce your self, crack a couple of jokes, and ask for coffee, get to know her better, get her number....and you know the plan from there. (:
That sounds like a great plan! Asking for coffee/numbers isn't like, creepy or anything, so I don't see why she'd have a problem with it. If you did have good chemistry, and she's single, she'll probably be pretty glad you're interested. :)
Ya! ask her for her number if you like her ask her out okay that would be nice if you did and still wait by her class for her and ask about her day.Her weekend.Stuff like that she'll be glad to know you care!
Definately! It'll be a nice surprise, and I bet she likes you anyway, so it's definately worth a shot! Go for it! And besides, girls think it's super sweet when guys wait for us after classes. =]
yeah go for it. if you're FOR SURE there was chemistry though. as a girl i wouldn't think that was weird of guy to do.
i would wait a little bit longer to ask her for coffee i would try to get to know her a little bit better
well i dont thinl u should look like yre waiting for her just act casual or else she may think something yeah and go for it ask her out for a cup of coffee or somthing lol good luck =]
Yeah..I think you should! =] Just approach her and talk to her! I doubt she will turn you down! go for it! You may not have another chance! GOOD LUCK!!!
I think that would work. Me being a girl, don't go too fast or she might think you're a pig.. but I think she might like you!! Good luck!!
You sound very sincere and nice. That would be a great plan and very flattering. Good luck hon!
Yea it would be ok
If you guys talk somewhat then yea ok
Have fun and good luck
I say go for it! Who knows will happen.
yeah definitely, she would think that is really sweet, kind of like being swept of her feet. good luck!
DO IT!!! :D
good luck
Ya that would be sweet.
Sounds like a plan! (:
definitely! she'll be glad to know that you've been thinking of her.
go for it! good luck!
yeah why not?
go for it..
she is probably waiting for you to ask her :)
NICE WORK BABE .................GO FOR IT................
..DO UR THING
of course!!!!!!
cool o! ya, just do it!
yeahh totallyy goo for itt !!! :))) it is a good ideaa to do that !!
yeahh! go for it its better to try then to have never tried at all!
she seems to like you
just go for it
awww sounds sweet! i wish my bf would have done that!
GO FOR IT!!!! :] she sounds into u!! good luck!
Girls advice question? (best answer)?
Last week I met this girl and we got along great and have a lot in common. We are at college and live off campus. We don't have any classes together so I emailed her today to ask her how a test we took for grad school went and she emailed me back within an hour saying how nice it was to hear from me and she hopes to see me soon. Since I never run into her can I/should I email her back asking her to get coffee or something next week? Thanks!Girls advice question? (best answer)?
yeah of course you should. You guys go to the same college and have a lot in common. and its not a big deal to go grab coffee with someone. obviously she wants to see you too. just dont make it a big deal and it wont be. Girls advice question? (best answer)?
Sure, but don't ask her, instead, TELL her to come with. Asking projects a lack of confidence and gives her a hint that you want to chase her; and both you and I know that women are turned off by the nice guy that constantly seeks her approval.
Be sure to flirt and converse effectively, ask her questions that will stimulate her senses, make it fun for her. Try not to talk about yourself too much, as this will make her subconsciously feel you are seeking her approval. Instead of emailing, try to run into her so that you can tell her in person; it will make you look more confident and bold.
Best wishes!
I think you should definitely email her back asking her out for a cup of coffee or something. That is a great approach in getting to know her. And its more formal since you don't know her all that well, than asking her out to dinner/movie. She will appreciate the gesture, and have more respect for you this way.
Go for it, and good luck
Yes you should email her back and invite her out to coffee. If she didn't want to hear back from you she would have (A) not responded back to your email or (B) gave you an answer that did not leave an open write me back invitation. So I say go for it if nothing else you gained a friend.
Yes you should and don't make something such as going out for coffee so complicated. she said it was nice to hear from you and hopes to see you...sure sign she is interested. if she answered no your a pig then i wouldn't bother. keep in touch with her and don't worry about the small stuff.
GO FOR IT
You're making the right choice! you're showing her that you want to S E E here and thats really good. If she does say yes just take it slow and keep the conversation going. Awkwardness is like the devil in socializing Lol.
Anyways good luck, Coffee is really formal, try movies?!
maybe cheaper Lol
=]
Go for it :)
What do you have to lose?
You may just get a best friend, or a girlfriend.
Or even a wife! :P
Also, coffee is great. There is nothing better than coffee and conversation.
Absolutly! From the sound of it she seems to like you otherwise she wouldn't say how good it was to hear from you. Go for it and good luck! :)
Yeah go for it!
If you never see her at least you wont have to worry if she says no- it wont be embarrassing if your never around each other. :)
Definitely! You're going to have to ask her over an email, phone or text, since you never see her out.
u should go for it. if she talks to u tht means she's kinda flirting. and if shes flirting, she likes u so i htink u guys should go out.
hell yeah. shes a nice smart girl. you dont ask her out someone else will. and youll be outta luck.
Definitely!!!! :-)
Life is to short not to take a chance.
It sounds like you have a great chance, so why not?
yes but Id get her phone number and then wait three days then call for a coffee.
seems civil enough.. not to stalker-like..
sure!! it seems like a nice progression..
Nick
show up at wherever she is staying then ask her to coffee, make sure she likes coffee though
Yes definitely, go for it! U wont get nothing if you don't ask! :) Your not going to lose anything ! Good luck x
yeah
it sounds like she likes talking to you so i think she would like to go out for cofee with you
Yeaah
you should do that
im sure she'd like that..
Yes, you should! Sounds like she likes you a lot. Good luck :)
Yes, take her out to coffee.
sounds like an invitation to become friends and who knows where it may lead
Yes i think you should
Yes go for it. If she's says no, her lost.
yes I think you should, good luck!
go for it before it's too late
good luck!
so sweet! I think you should ask her out!!!!!!!!
yes! do it! you wont regret it
ya duh!
yeah i would go for it!
yeah of course you should. You guys go to the same college and have a lot in common. and its not a big deal to go grab coffee with someone. obviously she wants to see you too. just dont make it a big deal and it wont be. Girls advice question? (best answer)?
Sure, but don't ask her, instead, TELL her to come with. Asking projects a lack of confidence and gives her a hint that you want to chase her; and both you and I know that women are turned off by the nice guy that constantly seeks her approval.
Be sure to flirt and converse effectively, ask her questions that will stimulate her senses, make it fun for her. Try not to talk about yourself too much, as this will make her subconsciously feel you are seeking her approval. Instead of emailing, try to run into her so that you can tell her in person; it will make you look more confident and bold.
Best wishes!
I think you should definitely email her back asking her out for a cup of coffee or something. That is a great approach in getting to know her. And its more formal since you don't know her all that well, than asking her out to dinner/movie. She will appreciate the gesture, and have more respect for you this way.
Go for it, and good luck
Yes you should email her back and invite her out to coffee. If she didn't want to hear back from you she would have (A) not responded back to your email or (B) gave you an answer that did not leave an open write me back invitation. So I say go for it if nothing else you gained a friend.
Yes you should and don't make something such as going out for coffee so complicated. she said it was nice to hear from you and hopes to see you...sure sign she is interested. if she answered no your a pig then i wouldn't bother. keep in touch with her and don't worry about the small stuff.
GO FOR IT
You're making the right choice! you're showing her that you want to S E E here and thats really good. If she does say yes just take it slow and keep the conversation going. Awkwardness is like the devil in socializing Lol.
Anyways good luck, Coffee is really formal, try movies?!
maybe cheaper Lol
=]
Go for it :)
What do you have to lose?
You may just get a best friend, or a girlfriend.
Or even a wife! :P
Also, coffee is great. There is nothing better than coffee and conversation.
Absolutly! From the sound of it she seems to like you otherwise she wouldn't say how good it was to hear from you. Go for it and good luck! :)
Yeah go for it!
If you never see her at least you wont have to worry if she says no- it wont be embarrassing if your never around each other. :)
Definitely! You're going to have to ask her over an email, phone or text, since you never see her out.
u should go for it. if she talks to u tht means she's kinda flirting. and if shes flirting, she likes u so i htink u guys should go out.
hell yeah. shes a nice smart girl. you dont ask her out someone else will. and youll be outta luck.
Definitely!!!! :-)
Life is to short not to take a chance.
It sounds like you have a great chance, so why not?
yes but Id get her phone number and then wait three days then call for a coffee.
seems civil enough.. not to stalker-like..
sure!! it seems like a nice progression..
Nick
show up at wherever she is staying then ask her to coffee, make sure she likes coffee though
Yes definitely, go for it! U wont get nothing if you don't ask! :) Your not going to lose anything ! Good luck x
yeah
it sounds like she likes talking to you so i think she would like to go out for cofee with you
Yeaah
you should do that
im sure she'd like that..
Yes, you should! Sounds like she likes you a lot. Good luck :)
Yes, take her out to coffee.
sounds like an invitation to become friends and who knows where it may lead
Yes i think you should
Yes go for it. If she's says no, her lost.
yes I think you should, good luck!
go for it before it's too late
good luck!
so sweet! I think you should ask her out!!!!!!!!
yes! do it! you wont regret it
ya duh!
yeah i would go for it!
I need advice as in what would be the best program for build a online retail website.?
Needs to be user freindly and has many ';options';. Thanks a ton and please keep anwsers serious and elaborate.
I will be constantly rechecking the answers so if you would like me to add more info as to better the answer it wont be a problem. again thanks for your advice and patience.I need advice as in what would be the best program for build a online retail website.?
I love the yahoo stores. All you have to provide is the front end, and they do all the programming. They do inventory management, bookkeeping, and even secure transaction processing.
Its not a bad deal, and it leaves you spending your time making the graphics nice and compatible with many browsers etc...I need advice as in what would be the best program for build a online retail website.?
OScommerce is a free and feature rich program written in php with data stored in mysql. Some webhosts even include this for free in their package. I would search google for oscommerce hosting and it should be as simple is signing up and logging into your store. Configuration is all done via the administrative control panel...and did I mention...its free!
i love the macromedia suite including dreamweaver and fireworks. their built-in tutorials help a lot.
I will be constantly rechecking the answers so if you would like me to add more info as to better the answer it wont be a problem. again thanks for your advice and patience.I need advice as in what would be the best program for build a online retail website.?
I love the yahoo stores. All you have to provide is the front end, and they do all the programming. They do inventory management, bookkeeping, and even secure transaction processing.
Its not a bad deal, and it leaves you spending your time making the graphics nice and compatible with many browsers etc...I need advice as in what would be the best program for build a online retail website.?
OScommerce is a free and feature rich program written in php with data stored in mysql. Some webhosts even include this for free in their package. I would search google for oscommerce hosting and it should be as simple is signing up and logging into your store. Configuration is all done via the administrative control panel...and did I mention...its free!
i love the macromedia suite including dreamweaver and fireworks. their built-in tutorials help a lot.
I need advice for my best friend
My best friend and I have been friends since well freshman year in high school, we're seniors now. But it's so weird because we have this connection, I can't really describe it. Like we get each other, and we have a lot of common interests. Well her parents are divorced, and she lives with her mom. Her mom is crazy. Like she's a psychopath, she is extremely overprotective and is always a complete ***** to her. My friend hates her. My friend's dad is an alcoholic and does drugs, but she wants to live with him because her mom is insane, but if she does move with her dad then she'll have to go to a different school. She's always been kind of an outsider, and she does not want to go to another school.
I don't know what to tell her, I mean both options really suck. I guess she could just live with her mom for one more year then move out, but well I don't know..I need advice for my best friend
I hesitate suggesting this but from what you've said, either place would be considered an ';unfit enviroment';. Look at it this way-- 1. she can go to court and possibly be emancipated--BUT, with that comes the fact that she will be totally responsible for her home, food,bills, etc... 2. stay with her mom and ';tough it out'; for one more year and end up on her own anyhow or 3. go live with her dad who you say is a drunk and drug addict. Keep something in mind though: in the Ten Commandments it says, ';Honor thy Father and thy Mother';. It doesn't say only if you feel they deserve it--it just says to honor them. If you was to give her 'advice' that might 'break' that commandment, YOU may be held accountable before our True Judge, God Himself!. Besides that, ';what if her and her parents were to 'fix' the problems facing them and try to 'pull the family together again'--SHE may hold it against you for not giving them that chance.'; Also, don't say it could never happen--I have seen some homes basically torn apart yet, given the right circumstances, they pulled through it, saw the damage it was causing, and repaired the ';mess';, letting the one giving the advice 'holding the bag,so-to-speak' Be there for her if she needs a ';shoulder to cry on'; but I would highly advise against trying to intervene--if you see what I mean. Besides, give your friend a little credit. At her age, I really don't think she would tolerate being pushed too far.I need advice for my best friend
tell her to stay with her mom for one more year!
since you guys are really good friends it will hurt you both if she moves with her dad!
but it will hurt her more if she moves because since she is a ';outsider';
then you might be the only one who REALLY understands her
and if she moves she wont have anyone...
even though her mom is mean to her its better to have someone there for you that actually understands
Well Hmmm.
Where Does The Dad Live And Where Does The Mom Live She Could Live With Both Like Mom Every 2 to 3 Weeks And Dad You Know?
Tough I Mean Does She Wanna Move Sit Down And Talk With Her Ask What SHE Really Wants To Do!pores lower eye liner
I don't know what to tell her, I mean both options really suck. I guess she could just live with her mom for one more year then move out, but well I don't know..I need advice for my best friend
I hesitate suggesting this but from what you've said, either place would be considered an ';unfit enviroment';. Look at it this way-- 1. she can go to court and possibly be emancipated--BUT, with that comes the fact that she will be totally responsible for her home, food,bills, etc... 2. stay with her mom and ';tough it out'; for one more year and end up on her own anyhow or 3. go live with her dad who you say is a drunk and drug addict. Keep something in mind though: in the Ten Commandments it says, ';Honor thy Father and thy Mother';. It doesn't say only if you feel they deserve it--it just says to honor them. If you was to give her 'advice' that might 'break' that commandment, YOU may be held accountable before our True Judge, God Himself!. Besides that, ';what if her and her parents were to 'fix' the problems facing them and try to 'pull the family together again'--SHE may hold it against you for not giving them that chance.'; Also, don't say it could never happen--I have seen some homes basically torn apart yet, given the right circumstances, they pulled through it, saw the damage it was causing, and repaired the ';mess';, letting the one giving the advice 'holding the bag,so-to-speak' Be there for her if she needs a ';shoulder to cry on'; but I would highly advise against trying to intervene--if you see what I mean. Besides, give your friend a little credit. At her age, I really don't think she would tolerate being pushed too far.I need advice for my best friend
tell her to stay with her mom for one more year!
since you guys are really good friends it will hurt you both if she moves with her dad!
but it will hurt her more if she moves because since she is a ';outsider';
then you might be the only one who REALLY understands her
and if she moves she wont have anyone...
even though her mom is mean to her its better to have someone there for you that actually understands
Well Hmmm.
Where Does The Dad Live And Where Does The Mom Live She Could Live With Both Like Mom Every 2 to 3 Weeks And Dad You Know?
Tough I Mean Does She Wanna Move Sit Down And Talk With Her Ask What SHE Really Wants To Do!
Your advice on best buy 19'; TFT?
My CRT is almost at end-of-life. I need to buy a new 19'; TFT at , 拢150 but there are so many choices available- thus I am asking ';have you bought one recently and would recommend it to me';?Your advice on best buy 19'; TFT?
Samsung SM920N 19'; TFT Display - Only 8MS Response Time
Product code: SAMMO217
拢139.00 (ex VAT)
* Ultra Narrow and Slim Design
* Clean %26amp; Simple Front View
* Superior Image Quality
* 8ms response time
* Contrast Ratio 700:1
* Brightness 250 cd/m2
* TCO'99 Certified
* Pivot Enabled 90
Main specifications
Manufacturer's Part Number: LS19MJAKSZ
Connections: 15 Pin D-Sub
Dimensions (wxdxh): 416.6 x 424.6 x 215.5 mm
Display (Projector) / Color Support: 16.2 Million
Display (Projector) / Diagonal Size (inches): 19';
Display (Projector) / Max Resolution: 1280 x 1024
Display (Projector) / Technology: TFT
Dot Pitch: 0.294 mm
Miscellaneous / Colour: Silver
Model: SM920N
Warranty: 1 Year Warranty
Weight (Net) kg's: 6KgYour advice on best buy 19'; TFT?
http://www.pcworld.co.uk/martprd/product鈥?/a>
Try this one 拢139.00 @ pcworld.
well i notice 2 people have said samsung...I AGREE , i use a double header at work (le19r71) and at home a 910t. dont know how much they are but they are (in my humble opinion) the best!
Try to look over some well-known websites where experts compare and give their own commenties on some TFT monitors. Try:
-PC World.com
-www.about.com (it's one of the most useful sites on the net to look for anything you need to know)
-PC Format.com
-CNET.com (same site)
-type in keywords such as ';Monitor comparison'; in search engines such as Google, Yahoo, MSN, Altavista, Lycos, Bonweb...etc.
I'm currently using a Phillips monitor, and I'm very satisfied with it. Beautiful colors, the graphics aren't pixely, sharp, and I could even use it for playing games with it. I think the picture quaity of Sony TFT monitors are the best, because they are crystal clear, sharp, and have beautiful colors, but I don't have any experience with Sony monitors. However when buying a monitior, always check for the naturality of its colors, how sharp the image is that is reproduces, and how fast it refreshes the images per second.
This one is rated tops from the site below,
*Samsung SyncMaster 193P
Samsung SM920N 19'; TFT Display - Only 8MS Response Time
Product code: SAMMO217
拢139.00 (ex VAT)
* Ultra Narrow and Slim Design
* Clean %26amp; Simple Front View
* Superior Image Quality
* 8ms response time
* Contrast Ratio 700:1
* Brightness 250 cd/m2
* TCO'99 Certified
* Pivot Enabled 90
Main specifications
Manufacturer's Part Number: LS19MJAKSZ
Connections: 15 Pin D-Sub
Dimensions (wxdxh): 416.6 x 424.6 x 215.5 mm
Display (Projector) / Color Support: 16.2 Million
Display (Projector) / Diagonal Size (inches): 19';
Display (Projector) / Max Resolution: 1280 x 1024
Display (Projector) / Technology: TFT
Dot Pitch: 0.294 mm
Miscellaneous / Colour: Silver
Model: SM920N
Warranty: 1 Year Warranty
Weight (Net) kg's: 6KgYour advice on best buy 19'; TFT?
http://www.pcworld.co.uk/martprd/product鈥?/a>
Try this one 拢139.00 @ pcworld.
well i notice 2 people have said samsung...I AGREE , i use a double header at work (le19r71) and at home a 910t. dont know how much they are but they are (in my humble opinion) the best!
Try to look over some well-known websites where experts compare and give their own commenties on some TFT monitors. Try:
-PC World.com
-www.about.com (it's one of the most useful sites on the net to look for anything you need to know)
-PC Format.com
-CNET.com (same site)
-type in keywords such as ';Monitor comparison'; in search engines such as Google, Yahoo, MSN, Altavista, Lycos, Bonweb...etc.
I'm currently using a Phillips monitor, and I'm very satisfied with it. Beautiful colors, the graphics aren't pixely, sharp, and I could even use it for playing games with it. I think the picture quaity of Sony TFT monitors are the best, because they are crystal clear, sharp, and have beautiful colors, but I don't have any experience with Sony monitors. However when buying a monitior, always check for the naturality of its colors, how sharp the image is that is reproduces, and how fast it refreshes the images per second.
This one is rated tops from the site below,
*Samsung SyncMaster 193P
Who is the best with friend advice out there???????????
nothing is important till u give importance to it!
pretty good ya!
i learned it from some1 who is 3 years younger than me!Who is the best with friend advice out there???????????
i am. :) whatcha need? i lost friends, i've had friends backstab me, i've helped friends, and found my best friends who i can trust.
whatcha got?Who is the best with friend advice out there???????????
Well, I was going to help you, but you didnt really ask a question...........
That depends...what's the problem?
The nuber one thing to do if you have a friend is be yourself.
Your friend will notice if you are acting cool and then you will lose him/her. Also, do not make your friend do stuff. Your friend will notice.
pretty good ya!
i learned it from some1 who is 3 years younger than me!Who is the best with friend advice out there???????????
i am. :) whatcha need? i lost friends, i've had friends backstab me, i've helped friends, and found my best friends who i can trust.
whatcha got?Who is the best with friend advice out there???????????
Well, I was going to help you, but you didnt really ask a question...........
That depends...what's the problem?
The nuber one thing to do if you have a friend is be yourself.
Your friend will notice if you are acting cool and then you will lose him/her. Also, do not make your friend do stuff. Your friend will notice.
Whats is the best piece of advice you could give me..?
Its gonna be a SWELL year :)Whats is the best piece of advice you could give me..?
Be happy?Whats is the best piece of advice you could give me..?
Have a positive attitude, take each day one day at a time.
Be happy and live life to it's fullest, and keep a smile on your face.
Pray and try to be a real human being!
follow the melbourne storm instead of manly
Don't say anything......unless you can improve on the silence! but seriously, support the Bunnies. ;) ;)
Believe in yourself, you can achieve nearly anything.
I don't even know what advice to give myself so......
Get a college degree.
It's never too late.
Work hard. Be good to your mother, Dougie!
LOL (Am I the only one old enough to remember that?)
Take one day at a time
never forgo free food
Learn to share your feeling with the people you love the most.
Love is eternal, Pandora
always remember to be content were you are with what you have this will give you the calm peacefully life you want
Truth is the way of life and keeping relationships
Be yourself not what others percieve you to be,a;lways be honest,be kind,caring,helpful,respectful,live life to the full,all you give will be returned to you and never say never...............
soar like an eagle
Eagles may soar – but weasels don’t get sucked into jet engines . . .
LOL sorry couldn't resist- heard that one yesterday.
My man works in aviation.....
Dont listen to the advice of P%26amp;Sers, we've all heard about them, they are the riff raff of Y/A.
Remeber...Licking doorknobs on other planets is illegal
*duck*
Be mindful of your health and relationships. Things seem to start falling apart (Turned 35 in April, and now I have issues with my blood pressure. Who, I ask, gets told that their bp is too LOW! Argh!)
And from my mom (a nurse): ';Lots of folks will tell you to make sure you wear clean underwear daily - just in case you are in an accident. Well, m'love, that's good advice, but rather silly, actually. Most people in accidents wet themselves or their bowels let go. If you are worried about accidents and want a nursing staff to love you, make sure you have on clean socks and your feet don't stink. Crap is crap. ';Tis a fact of life. Stinky feet? They're bad'; :)
There. A twofer. Happy 36th year :)
Cherish your family and friends. You never know when they will be gone.
Live without prejudice and remember that our differences are things to be cherished, not detested.
be nice to people and always leave good memory with them.
Make the most of every day in your life as you do only live once!!!
change your underwear everyday you never no when someones gonna nick your trousers or you get hit by a bus and they have to do an operation then an there on the street and your wearing yesterdays pants not nice
Dont get done over by money hungry thieves.............
Hang In There!
I can’t believe you got so hurt
When you fell and hit the dirt
Sustained injuries to your head
And now you’re stuck in a bed
But don’t you worry, we’ll pray you out
And to the Lord we’re going to shout
Sometimes us, you might not remember
But in Christ’s family we are a member
be yourself. it's the only way you'll be happy.
u support a top footy team mate..
Go manly!!!
Be happy?Whats is the best piece of advice you could give me..?
Have a positive attitude, take each day one day at a time.
Be happy and live life to it's fullest, and keep a smile on your face.
Pray and try to be a real human being!
follow the melbourne storm instead of manly
Don't say anything......unless you can improve on the silence! but seriously, support the Bunnies. ;) ;)
Believe in yourself, you can achieve nearly anything.
I don't even know what advice to give myself so......
Get a college degree.
It's never too late.
Work hard. Be good to your mother, Dougie!
LOL (Am I the only one old enough to remember that?)
Take one day at a time
never forgo free food
Learn to share your feeling with the people you love the most.
Love is eternal, Pandora
always remember to be content were you are with what you have this will give you the calm peacefully life you want
Truth is the way of life and keeping relationships
Be yourself not what others percieve you to be,a;lways be honest,be kind,caring,helpful,respectful,live life to the full,all you give will be returned to you and never say never...............
soar like an eagle
Eagles may soar – but weasels don’t get sucked into jet engines . . .
LOL sorry couldn't resist- heard that one yesterday.
My man works in aviation.....
Dont listen to the advice of P%26amp;Sers, we've all heard about them, they are the riff raff of Y/A.
Remeber...Licking doorknobs on other planets is illegal
*duck*
Be mindful of your health and relationships. Things seem to start falling apart (Turned 35 in April, and now I have issues with my blood pressure. Who, I ask, gets told that their bp is too LOW! Argh!)
And from my mom (a nurse): ';Lots of folks will tell you to make sure you wear clean underwear daily - just in case you are in an accident. Well, m'love, that's good advice, but rather silly, actually. Most people in accidents wet themselves or their bowels let go. If you are worried about accidents and want a nursing staff to love you, make sure you have on clean socks and your feet don't stink. Crap is crap. ';Tis a fact of life. Stinky feet? They're bad'; :)
There. A twofer. Happy 36th year :)
Cherish your family and friends. You never know when they will be gone.
Live without prejudice and remember that our differences are things to be cherished, not detested.
be nice to people and always leave good memory with them.
Make the most of every day in your life as you do only live once!!!
change your underwear everyday you never no when someones gonna nick your trousers or you get hit by a bus and they have to do an operation then an there on the street and your wearing yesterdays pants not nice
Dont get done over by money hungry thieves.............
Hang In There!
I can’t believe you got so hurt
When you fell and hit the dirt
Sustained injuries to your head
And now you’re stuck in a bed
But don’t you worry, we’ll pray you out
And to the Lord we’re going to shout
Sometimes us, you might not remember
But in Christ’s family we are a member
be yourself. it's the only way you'll be happy.
u support a top footy team mate..
Go manly!!!
My best friend wont take advice fron me and she comes crying to me when she needs help wht do i do ??
If she wont take your advice there is really nothing you can do but keep trying.My best friend wont take advice fron me and she comes crying to me when she needs help wht do i do ??
You cannot help someone who will not help themselves. If she doesn't take your advice but then comes back crying to you when things go wrong for her tell her you don't want to hear it.
If you want to remain friends your going to have to be honest with her about repeating the same mistakes over and over for crying and asking for advice but then not taking it. (I know the type)
Beware of the friend that comes with baggage too. Sometimes it is easy to befriend someone and then find that they are a very needy person. This doesn't mean there a bad person it just means that they have too many problems and you can not be the problem fixer. To wit: You can't help someone that won't help themself.My best friend wont take advice fron me and she comes crying to me when she needs help wht do i do ??
Hii...
I would talk to her about it (When she is in a good mood) Say to her how you feel, but dont be rude about it. Just say to her ';Look, i am beginning to get slightly annoyed now, because you come crying to me, telling me how something has gone wrong and that you are all upset, and you dunno what todo, so then ask me, then when i talk to you and give you advice you dont take it. Which is fair enough if you dont like what i said, but then you always come back to me crying agian and asking what todo. Now please make your mind up becasue it is not fair on me. I am always trying to help you and all you and give you advice but all you do is throw it back in my face!';
Sorry, that this is long. But i had the same problem if one of my mates, it is really annoying so i know how you feel.
Gurd Luck! ;)
Insanity is repeating your behavior and expecting a different result.
Seriously, How is her method working out for her? Time to listen to somebody else. She is in a RUT, but she likes her rut, doesn't she.
Many are like that these days,start preparing friend for next problem
-You know that you can write e mails to me by clicking the word e mail which is visible in my profile available by clicking here my name/picture
just keep giving ur advice so later you can be like i gave you my advice and you didn't take it, so now what?
just ask her why and see what happens...
You cannot help someone who will not help themselves. If she doesn't take your advice but then comes back crying to you when things go wrong for her tell her you don't want to hear it.
If you want to remain friends your going to have to be honest with her about repeating the same mistakes over and over for crying and asking for advice but then not taking it. (I know the type)
Beware of the friend that comes with baggage too. Sometimes it is easy to befriend someone and then find that they are a very needy person. This doesn't mean there a bad person it just means that they have too many problems and you can not be the problem fixer. To wit: You can't help someone that won't help themself.My best friend wont take advice fron me and she comes crying to me when she needs help wht do i do ??
Hii...
I would talk to her about it (When she is in a good mood) Say to her how you feel, but dont be rude about it. Just say to her ';Look, i am beginning to get slightly annoyed now, because you come crying to me, telling me how something has gone wrong and that you are all upset, and you dunno what todo, so then ask me, then when i talk to you and give you advice you dont take it. Which is fair enough if you dont like what i said, but then you always come back to me crying agian and asking what todo. Now please make your mind up becasue it is not fair on me. I am always trying to help you and all you and give you advice but all you do is throw it back in my face!';
Sorry, that this is long. But i had the same problem if one of my mates, it is really annoying so i know how you feel.
Gurd Luck! ;)
Insanity is repeating your behavior and expecting a different result.
Seriously, How is her method working out for her? Time to listen to somebody else. She is in a RUT, but she likes her rut, doesn't she.
Many are like that these days,start preparing friend for next problem
-You know that you can write e mails to me by clicking the word e mail which is visible in my profile available by clicking here my name/picture
just keep giving ur advice so later you can be like i gave you my advice and you didn't take it, so now what?
just ask her why and see what happens...
What is your best piece of advice?
YOU CANNOT BE ANYTHING IF YOU WANT TO BE EVERYTHINGWhat is your best piece of advice?
the people that are your friends shouldnt care if your a crazy person.. and people who you dont know, might care, but you will never see them again.. have fun and dont worry what people care about you, because if they think badly of you, why the hell should you care, just go crazy, play pranks, go outside, have friends, dont be a lame teenager because you only get to be once. What is your best piece of advice?
Never expect that feeling bad for yourself after an accident, death or illness is a good idea, because after a day of people offering their condolences.. you are just another burden they must get off their back.
I learned this after my car accident. I felt horrible and it didn't matter how bad I felt because no one was going to forget their fun time to come sit with me and be with me for a bit and miss their fun.
From that day on I have never expected anyone to do anything for me or make me happy, it's all done in house ;)
Treat everyone like you'd want to be treated, but some people are toxic and are best avoided. A graphic design teacher gave me that advice when it came to choosing clients, but it really does apply to every situation I've ever dealt with.
if you rub it, good things will happen. this can apply either to yourself or with a woman, it's just good advice all around.
';Never run dry';. You can apply this to anything but then again everything.
Run, run, run, run as fast as you can. And run backwards while you're at it.
Don't let temporary emotions cause permanent problems
Never divorce and then remarry the same woman you divorced.
Don't believe anything you hear and half of what you see...
Tequila shots, definitely!.
Keep your mouth shut and your ears open. Can't go wrong that way.
After today it's 'Don't ask any questions'
Don't let others pack your parachute.
If it doesn't smell good, don't eat it.
Always come home with your underwear whether they are in your purse or not!
if you cant be good then be good at it!
a diamond without pressure is a piece of coal
don't let your possessions possess you
Stay away from Yellow snow.
dont think it...... do it
If your not in bed by 11, come home....
Live life for the moment.
Always wipe front to back.
If you want something done- Do it yourself
don't sweat the small stuff....life is too short
Life is fragile - handle with prayer
Live long and prosper
Handcuffs can be fun
Suck it and see
live and let live!! :D
the people that are your friends shouldnt care if your a crazy person.. and people who you dont know, might care, but you will never see them again.. have fun and dont worry what people care about you, because if they think badly of you, why the hell should you care, just go crazy, play pranks, go outside, have friends, dont be a lame teenager because you only get to be once. What is your best piece of advice?
Never expect that feeling bad for yourself after an accident, death or illness is a good idea, because after a day of people offering their condolences.. you are just another burden they must get off their back.
I learned this after my car accident. I felt horrible and it didn't matter how bad I felt because no one was going to forget their fun time to come sit with me and be with me for a bit and miss their fun.
From that day on I have never expected anyone to do anything for me or make me happy, it's all done in house ;)
Treat everyone like you'd want to be treated, but some people are toxic and are best avoided. A graphic design teacher gave me that advice when it came to choosing clients, but it really does apply to every situation I've ever dealt with.
if you rub it, good things will happen. this can apply either to yourself or with a woman, it's just good advice all around.
';Never run dry';. You can apply this to anything but then again everything.
Run, run, run, run as fast as you can. And run backwards while you're at it.
Don't let temporary emotions cause permanent problems
Never divorce and then remarry the same woman you divorced.
Don't believe anything you hear and half of what you see...
Tequila shots, definitely!.
Keep your mouth shut and your ears open. Can't go wrong that way.
After today it's 'Don't ask any questions'
Don't let others pack your parachute.
If it doesn't smell good, don't eat it.
Always come home with your underwear whether they are in your purse or not!
if you cant be good then be good at it!
a diamond without pressure is a piece of coal
don't let your possessions possess you
Stay away from Yellow snow.
dont think it...... do it
If your not in bed by 11, come home....
Live life for the moment.
Always wipe front to back.
If you want something done- Do it yourself
don't sweat the small stuff....life is too short
Life is fragile - handle with prayer
Live long and prosper
Handcuffs can be fun
Suck it and see
live and let live!! :D
Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Last week I met this girl who was taking the LSAT (a test) and we got along great and talked a couple times. The last time I talked to her was outside of her class last Wednesday. Would it be alright to wait outside her class tomorrow, ask her how the LSAT went and asked to see if we could get some coffee and get her number? We never formally introduced each other though we talked for over a half hour last week and there was definitely chemistry. Thanks!!!Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Yes, that sounds like a good plan :)Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
go for it ;)pores lower eye liner
Yes, that sounds like a good plan :)Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
go for it ;)
My son need good advice, i try my best to help him but i guess my words are not good enough for him?
He said eventhough i give him advice and help him out with quetions he is still confused.
right now he asked me to come on line to get more advice from ppl on yahoo answers.
ok this is what is on his mind. he is cerious about life and he is starting to think about girls he thinks that every time he thinks a thought about something that has to do with having crushes or privet parts he ends up feeling guilty. he feels really guilty for the thoughts that cross his mind, what else can i posably do to help my son so he dosn't think he is a bad boy for being cirious he feels nasty and guitly.
i told him it's all part of growning up. We need some advise from someone that hashad a cerious 10 year old too.please excuse my spelling.
thank you soo much!My son need good advice, i try my best to help him but i guess my words are not good enough for him?
mom calm down, just let him know thats it's normal, don't worry, he'll be fine , I had the same issue, but sooner or later i knew that one day i would fall in love, just let him know that it's normal, alot of poeple go thougth that, but once he ha his first girlfriend he'll understand and he'll than you mom, i sure your a great mom and you'll do what you can to gethim to understand tell him don't sweat it, it all turn out for the best!My son need good advice, i try my best to help him but i guess my words are not good enough for him?
Everyone has thoughts occur to them, but it's not okay just to sit and dwell and daydream about things like that. Daydreams can lead to actions that are not consistent with what is right. Sex and sexual actions are for married people only. A lot of times guilty feelings are our conscience's way of telling us what isn't right to do.
I'm taking it that you don't have any males that can help him figure out what being a guy is all about. Do you have any guys that can help you out a little. He's at that age where he's just about ready to enter puberty and his hormones are raging. All boys go through this and you just have to let him know thinking about girls is normal, looking at himself in the mirror is normal and that he'll start to notice body changes that shouldn't scare him. He's not a bad boy. The best thing you can do just keep repeating yourself in telling him he's ok, he's normal and what he's experiencing right now is normal. Talk to the mom's of his friends and try to get a male to answer some of his more personal questions (that he may be too embarrassed to ask you.) One crucial point...make sure that male is someone he's comfortable with and trusts.
You're such a great mom. You really care about your boy's development and his self-esteem. Keep up the great work.
My son was nine when he started getting curious and asking questions, he felt the same way. I told him as long as it is thinking about thinks there is no harm, it is perfectly normal and natural to have such thoughts, especially about things that are different than what a boy would have. Just remember not touch anyone without their permission, and at nine (ten) he should not be asking to. Now this is tough one to answer, even tougher to explain for a nine or ten year old to understand. There were many people who had to talk to my son, mostly males, because I am a female and I do not know exactly what it is like for a male, but I gather it is about the same. i just wanted to let your son know, that from the females point of view, there is no reason to feel guilty, everyone has the thoughts at some point in time. There is absolutely nothing disgusting or nasty about what God has made, all is beautiful and natural.
For the young man, please wait until you are an adult to act on your thoughts, there are books that explain everything, though I am not sure they would be appropriate for someone so young, that is ultimately the choice for your parents to make.
I do not know how much this helped, if any, just wanted to let you know that some things have to be learned through experience and that that experiment should wait until you are older.
I'm sorry, this just looks like a Troll.
give him a playboy subscription
just explain to him that those thought are as natural as thinking about football. everyone thinks about football and you can talk about it too. everyone has the thoughts and feelings that he is having, only they don't talk about them.
LoL I'm 14 1/2 I felt that way when I was getting cerious too there is nothing wrong with it it's human nature it just means that he's growing up let him know that.
well i think he needs a girlfren coz he's been all those guilty and whatnots so maybe a girlfren can help
right now he asked me to come on line to get more advice from ppl on yahoo answers.
ok this is what is on his mind. he is cerious about life and he is starting to think about girls he thinks that every time he thinks a thought about something that has to do with having crushes or privet parts he ends up feeling guilty. he feels really guilty for the thoughts that cross his mind, what else can i posably do to help my son so he dosn't think he is a bad boy for being cirious he feels nasty and guitly.
i told him it's all part of growning up. We need some advise from someone that hashad a cerious 10 year old too.please excuse my spelling.
thank you soo much!My son need good advice, i try my best to help him but i guess my words are not good enough for him?
mom calm down, just let him know thats it's normal, don't worry, he'll be fine , I had the same issue, but sooner or later i knew that one day i would fall in love, just let him know that it's normal, alot of poeple go thougth that, but once he ha his first girlfriend he'll understand and he'll than you mom, i sure your a great mom and you'll do what you can to gethim to understand tell him don't sweat it, it all turn out for the best!My son need good advice, i try my best to help him but i guess my words are not good enough for him?
Everyone has thoughts occur to them, but it's not okay just to sit and dwell and daydream about things like that. Daydreams can lead to actions that are not consistent with what is right. Sex and sexual actions are for married people only. A lot of times guilty feelings are our conscience's way of telling us what isn't right to do.
I'm taking it that you don't have any males that can help him figure out what being a guy is all about. Do you have any guys that can help you out a little. He's at that age where he's just about ready to enter puberty and his hormones are raging. All boys go through this and you just have to let him know thinking about girls is normal, looking at himself in the mirror is normal and that he'll start to notice body changes that shouldn't scare him. He's not a bad boy. The best thing you can do just keep repeating yourself in telling him he's ok, he's normal and what he's experiencing right now is normal. Talk to the mom's of his friends and try to get a male to answer some of his more personal questions (that he may be too embarrassed to ask you.) One crucial point...make sure that male is someone he's comfortable with and trusts.
You're such a great mom. You really care about your boy's development and his self-esteem. Keep up the great work.
My son was nine when he started getting curious and asking questions, he felt the same way. I told him as long as it is thinking about thinks there is no harm, it is perfectly normal and natural to have such thoughts, especially about things that are different than what a boy would have. Just remember not touch anyone without their permission, and at nine (ten) he should not be asking to. Now this is tough one to answer, even tougher to explain for a nine or ten year old to understand. There were many people who had to talk to my son, mostly males, because I am a female and I do not know exactly what it is like for a male, but I gather it is about the same. i just wanted to let your son know, that from the females point of view, there is no reason to feel guilty, everyone has the thoughts at some point in time. There is absolutely nothing disgusting or nasty about what God has made, all is beautiful and natural.
For the young man, please wait until you are an adult to act on your thoughts, there are books that explain everything, though I am not sure they would be appropriate for someone so young, that is ultimately the choice for your parents to make.
I do not know how much this helped, if any, just wanted to let you know that some things have to be learned through experience and that that experiment should wait until you are older.
I'm sorry, this just looks like a Troll.
give him a playboy subscription
just explain to him that those thought are as natural as thinking about football. everyone thinks about football and you can talk about it too. everyone has the thoughts and feelings that he is having, only they don't talk about them.
LoL I'm 14 1/2 I felt that way when I was getting cerious too there is nothing wrong with it it's human nature it just means that he's growing up let him know that.
well i think he needs a girlfren coz he's been all those guilty and whatnots so maybe a girlfren can help
Chinese people: Best way to learn Chinese? Advice!!!?
On a more personal note: The Beiijing olympics has certainly been the best Olympics that I have seen. This has to go down as one of the greatest if not the greatest olympics ever. Your people have shown extreme generosity, class, and respect. China has certainly been a great host and is a role model country for the rest of the world. Actually you have inspired me to learn your language and know more about your culture. Thank you!!!!Chinese people: Best way to learn Chinese? Advice!!!?
As a Chinese,I'm very glad that you like the Beijing olympics.
If possible,come to China to learn Chinese.
If this is not the best choice for you,maybe you can try reading some books about China in your language first.Secondly get a Chinese teacher to lead you into the door of our language,because pronunciation is a big problem for foreigners,especially westerners.Thirdly be an active learner.Speak more,listen more and watch more. Movies and dramas are very good for language study.Moreover,Chinese sketch and cross talk should be perfect since you want to know our culture.Meanwhile,many materials should be available on the internet.Make full use of it.
Finally I wanna say a ';best way'; for me may be the worst one for you.Therefore,try it and get your own method.Chinese people: Best way to learn Chinese? Advice!!!?
im irish but i know a great wbsite that u can buy courses at reasonable enough prices. i bought their spanish course and i couldnt believe how much i learned, in just a few days.
also, id recommened taking their free demo, u learn a few simple sentances in minutes.
www.linkwordlanguages.com
they have chinese=)
God bless and good luck.
Chinese Education Revolution
';Absolutely Don't Study Chinese'; is a revolutionary Chinese online courses. It is a magic online courses. Through this course, you can Learn Mandarin Chinese quickly and easily.
The best way is to come to China to learn Chinese!
Beijing welcomes you!
I think the best way is to get a chinese to help you, for exchange, you could teach her or him english.
As a Chinese,I'm very glad that you like the Beijing olympics.
If possible,come to China to learn Chinese.
If this is not the best choice for you,maybe you can try reading some books about China in your language first.Secondly get a Chinese teacher to lead you into the door of our language,because pronunciation is a big problem for foreigners,especially westerners.Thirdly be an active learner.Speak more,listen more and watch more. Movies and dramas are very good for language study.Moreover,Chinese sketch and cross talk should be perfect since you want to know our culture.Meanwhile,many materials should be available on the internet.Make full use of it.
Finally I wanna say a ';best way'; for me may be the worst one for you.Therefore,try it and get your own method.Chinese people: Best way to learn Chinese? Advice!!!?
im irish but i know a great wbsite that u can buy courses at reasonable enough prices. i bought their spanish course and i couldnt believe how much i learned, in just a few days.
also, id recommened taking their free demo, u learn a few simple sentances in minutes.
www.linkwordlanguages.com
they have chinese=)
God bless and good luck.
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The best way is to come to China to learn Chinese!
Beijing welcomes you!
I think the best way is to get a chinese to help you, for exchange, you could teach her or him english.
Whats the BEST skincare, makeup, and hair advice/tip you've ever heard?
what's your favourite tip/advice? :)Whats the BEST skincare, makeup, and hair advice/tip you've ever heard?
an aspirin mask!
- disclaimer - if you are allergic or have sensitive skin you may react to it.
- I have tried it and what it is, is: a few pills of aspirin crushed up and added to a few drops of water, mixed together.
- put it on your face and it really really evens it out and gives you clear skin!
- I tried it and loved it! although you should not use it too often, it is good everyone once a week or two at clearing up and evening out skintone!
- the reason why i say not to use it too much is that the first time I tried it, I was so amazed I used it every single day for two weeks! then I had some allergic reaction, but that was also since I used another store bought mask with it. Not a good idea. Just stick to the aspirin alone! =)Whats the BEST skincare, makeup, and hair advice/tip you've ever heard?
Idk if thisc counts, I think it does, but I read in a magazine that there are parabens in deoderants that could cause breast cancer. I don't think it said aerosal, but they are bad for the environment anyway so don't use them.
Wash your makeup off and just your face in general every night with a hot wash cloth, shower, and wash your hair daily.
an aspirin mask!
- disclaimer - if you are allergic or have sensitive skin you may react to it.
- I have tried it and what it is, is: a few pills of aspirin crushed up and added to a few drops of water, mixed together.
- put it on your face and it really really evens it out and gives you clear skin!
- I tried it and loved it! although you should not use it too often, it is good everyone once a week or two at clearing up and evening out skintone!
- the reason why i say not to use it too much is that the first time I tried it, I was so amazed I used it every single day for two weeks! then I had some allergic reaction, but that was also since I used another store bought mask with it. Not a good idea. Just stick to the aspirin alone! =)Whats the BEST skincare, makeup, and hair advice/tip you've ever heard?
Idk if thisc counts, I think it does, but I read in a magazine that there are parabens in deoderants that could cause breast cancer. I don't think it said aerosal, but they are bad for the environment anyway so don't use them.
Wash your makeup off and just your face in general every night with a hot wash cloth, shower, and wash your hair daily.
I need advice! on best friends! ?
Me and my best friend had this huge fight over the summer and i wanted to write her a note to say that i was sorry etc.. what could i possibly add beside it was my fault (even if it wasnt) and maybe we should talk it out and i hate not talking to u or not being ur friend! I want too add more that wouldnt be too desperate and things like we shouldnt go on hating each other and stuff, and it happens to everyone!I need advice! on best friends! ?
Pull it out of your heart,
don't ask for our advice, or otherwise it's not a real apology,
it would just be stuff you got off the computer..
And don't say it;s your fault if you don't think so.
If she's your best friend,
don't lie to her when you're trying to apologize?!?I need advice! on best friends! ?
i actually think advice is always goood.
if someone gives you an idea to what you should
tell your friend then you will decide if you like it
or not and that will be your true feelings.
(not just someting off your computer)
i think you should let her know whats up and why
its not your fault. Tell her you miss how things were
but you wish that you can solve this to not have hard
feelings and then continue your friendship with even
better feelings. then you guys can say its a true friendship
if you can make it out of a fight cuz then you guys can
go through thick and thin
Pull it out of your heart,
don't ask for our advice, or otherwise it's not a real apology,
it would just be stuff you got off the computer..
And don't say it;s your fault if you don't think so.
If she's your best friend,
don't lie to her when you're trying to apologize?!?I need advice! on best friends! ?
i actually think advice is always goood.
if someone gives you an idea to what you should
tell your friend then you will decide if you like it
or not and that will be your true feelings.
(not just someting off your computer)
i think you should let her know whats up and why
its not your fault. Tell her you miss how things were
but you wish that you can solve this to not have hard
feelings and then continue your friendship with even
better feelings. then you guys can say its a true friendship
if you can make it out of a fight cuz then you guys can
go through thick and thin
Advice on best Mascara. UK.?
Name of mascara? Where can you get it from? Roughley how much?Advice on best Mascara. UK.?
MAX FACTOR Volume Couture. It's awesome and cheap
u can find it in all make-up storesAdvice on best Mascara. UK.?
http://www.boots.com/en/Bourjois-Coup-De鈥?/a> 拢6.80
http://www.boots.com/en/Maybelline-Lash-鈥?/a> 拢5.82
http://www.boots.com/en/Max-Factor-Maste鈥?/a>
Max Factor Volume Couture Mascara
I use Clinique's High Impact mascara, I love it.
Its available in black, brown or blue.
I bought mine for 12 pounds from Debenhams.
The qualities about this product is that:
-It doesnt flake off like most others.
-Extends your lashes very effectively.
If you dont want to pay 12 pounds,
Collection 2000 do a mascara that is very good,
I cannot remember the name exactly,
but you can buy it from Boots/Superdrug for 5 pounds.
Its in an metallic orange tube, sorry i couldnt remember the name.
I recommend Clinique the highest though, its well worth the money.
I hope this helps! x
Guerlain mascara. It really long and the outside colour is gold. Its AMAZING!! It has two sides: lengthening mascara on one side and a small wand for the lower lash and small lashes on the inner eye.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_T8jmzzBIK-Y/SX鈥?/a>
You can get it from Debenhams (I got it from the airport tho). Costs 拢22
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stor鈥?/a>
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stor鈥?/a>
Bad Lash by Benefit is really good, but it costs about 拢10 from Debenhams or Boots. It's worth it, but it does depend on how much you use and what you can afford.
I agree with Rach (first answer) that Collection 2000 mascara is a good budget mascara- that's what I used to use.pores lower eye liner
MAX FACTOR Volume Couture. It's awesome and cheap
u can find it in all make-up storesAdvice on best Mascara. UK.?
http://www.boots.com/en/Bourjois-Coup-De鈥?/a> 拢6.80
http://www.boots.com/en/Maybelline-Lash-鈥?/a> 拢5.82
http://www.boots.com/en/Max-Factor-Maste鈥?/a>
Max Factor Volume Couture Mascara
I use Clinique's High Impact mascara, I love it.
Its available in black, brown or blue.
I bought mine for 12 pounds from Debenhams.
The qualities about this product is that:
-It doesnt flake off like most others.
-Extends your lashes very effectively.
If you dont want to pay 12 pounds,
Collection 2000 do a mascara that is very good,
I cannot remember the name exactly,
but you can buy it from Boots/Superdrug for 5 pounds.
Its in an metallic orange tube, sorry i couldnt remember the name.
I recommend Clinique the highest though, its well worth the money.
I hope this helps! x
Guerlain mascara. It really long and the outside colour is gold. Its AMAZING!! It has two sides: lengthening mascara on one side and a small wand for the lower lash and small lashes on the inner eye.
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_T8jmzzBIK-Y/SX鈥?/a>
You can get it from Debenhams (I got it from the airport tho). Costs 拢22
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stor鈥?/a>
http://www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stor鈥?/a>
Bad Lash by Benefit is really good, but it costs about 拢10 from Debenhams or Boots. It's worth it, but it does depend on how much you use and what you can afford.
I agree with Rach (first answer) that Collection 2000 mascara is a good budget mascara- that's what I used to use.
Whats the best piece of advice you was given that you never listened to - do you now wish you did?
Have you ever had someone give you a good piece of advice and you just havent listened, than later regretted it? What was it?Whats the best piece of advice you was given that you never listened to - do you now wish you did?
I haven't (I'm a good little girl), but my sister has. Here is the advice: Break up with him. She didn't listen. He will eventually bring her down; she鈥檒l hit the bottom hard. =(Whats the best piece of advice you was given that you never listened to - do you now wish you did?
Listen to your elders. A wise person learns from other people mistakes.
They told me to save my money. I didn't listen!
yes, very much. thing is, i don't really remember what it was! (uh-oh)
Open a 401k at age 18 and contribute every spare penny.
Don't sell this book back to the bookstore.
To get your *** out of bed and go to school but I never did listen...
study hard
Don't drop out of school.
save your money. dont buy something u dont need.
dont be so trusting not everyone wishes u well. and god only knows how much i wish i listened to that
How important school is. I could be making so much more money now if I had listened.
I haven't (I'm a good little girl), but my sister has. Here is the advice: Break up with him. She didn't listen. He will eventually bring her down; she鈥檒l hit the bottom hard. =(Whats the best piece of advice you was given that you never listened to - do you now wish you did?
Listen to your elders. A wise person learns from other people mistakes.
They told me to save my money. I didn't listen!
yes, very much. thing is, i don't really remember what it was! (uh-oh)
Open a 401k at age 18 and contribute every spare penny.
Don't sell this book back to the bookstore.
To get your *** out of bed and go to school but I never did listen...
study hard
Don't drop out of school.
save your money. dont buy something u dont need.
dont be so trusting not everyone wishes u well. and god only knows how much i wish i listened to that
How important school is. I could be making so much more money now if I had listened.
Need advice ASAP... give best answer to first legit response?
I want to know if I should keep eating. I'm a thin kid, but I just scarfed down some Chinese rice. Should I go a second serving? I could add General Tso chicken if I felt like it... I think I got Tyson chicken in the freezer or maybe some Strawberry Eclairs. Tell me what to eat or not eat.Need advice ASAP... give best answer to first legit response?
Eat da eclair dey be maddd tasty....Need advice ASAP... give best answer to first legit response?
DONT DOOO ITTTT!!!!!! =) i always regret the having the munchies when i wake up the next morning... wel its almost midnight here, so i guess it depends what what time of the day it is where you are.... b4 5... go for it, you only live once.
happy grubbing... or not grubbing
Eat smart.
the rice is OK, but rather starchy and you should limit its consumption. The chicken is fine, but go for vegetables and fruits as well
Eschew the eclairs. Not all that good for you.
If you are hungry no matter what times it is go ahead and eat. Eat as much as you feel you need to be full. Hope my answer was helpful?
Eat da eclair dey be maddd tasty....Need advice ASAP... give best answer to first legit response?
DONT DOOO ITTTT!!!!!! =) i always regret the having the munchies when i wake up the next morning... wel its almost midnight here, so i guess it depends what what time of the day it is where you are.... b4 5... go for it, you only live once.
happy grubbing... or not grubbing
Eat smart.
the rice is OK, but rather starchy and you should limit its consumption. The chicken is fine, but go for vegetables and fruits as well
Eschew the eclairs. Not all that good for you.
If you are hungry no matter what times it is go ahead and eat. Eat as much as you feel you need to be full. Hope my answer was helpful?
I want to get an Online TEFL qualification. Where am I best to go? Any Suggestions or Advice? Thanks.?
I'm aware that an online course is not as good as a class taught qualification, however due to working hours %26amp; money online will be my best bet. Thanks.I want to get an Online TEFL qualification. Where am I best to go? Any Suggestions or Advice? Thanks.?
The problem is that any decent TEFL qualification involves a lot of practical work and class observations. I got mine through UCLES (University of Cambridge Language Examinations Syndicate) and I had to be teaching because they came into my class 5 times to observe.
You may be able to do the theoretical part online, but you won't be able to get the full qualification.I want to get an Online TEFL qualification. Where am I best to go? Any Suggestions or Advice? Thanks.?
Online courses are ideal for entry level jobs; most jobs just require a degree and TEFL certificate so a good online course is fine.
Take a look at the ICAL course (http://icalweb.com) which is well regarded and $265. They also do an online course with observed teaching practice if you wanted to go down that route.
You can also look at TEFL Course Review which has reviews from former students.
The problem is that any decent TEFL qualification involves a lot of practical work and class observations. I got mine through UCLES (University of Cambridge Language Examinations Syndicate) and I had to be teaching because they came into my class 5 times to observe.
You may be able to do the theoretical part online, but you won't be able to get the full qualification.I want to get an Online TEFL qualification. Where am I best to go? Any Suggestions or Advice? Thanks.?
Online courses are ideal for entry level jobs; most jobs just require a degree and TEFL certificate so a good online course is fine.
Take a look at the ICAL course (http://icalweb.com) which is well regarded and $265. They also do an online course with observed teaching practice if you wanted to go down that route.
You can also look at TEFL Course Review which has reviews from former students.
Best Fantasy Football Advice - Line up Advice?
fantasy football help or fantasy football adivce is everywhere but so far the most accurate: http://www.fantasyfootballstarters.com/
They offer a free access to their team analyzer!Best Fantasy Football Advice - Line up Advice?
Thanks for the advice, that helped alot. you should get 10 points.Best Fantasy Football Advice - Line up Advice?
So I have to pay too get total access to info that I can get for free elsewhere? Hmmmmm....why would anyone do that?
E-mail me...and I will send you a link to the best Fantasy site on the net....and here is the novelty of it...it is FREE!pores lower eye liner
They offer a free access to their team analyzer!Best Fantasy Football Advice - Line up Advice?
Thanks for the advice, that helped alot. you should get 10 points.Best Fantasy Football Advice - Line up Advice?
So I have to pay too get total access to info that I can get for free elsewhere? Hmmmmm....why would anyone do that?
E-mail me...and I will send you a link to the best Fantasy site on the net....and here is the novelty of it...it is FREE!
The best sites / magazines for plain or simple english Real Estate advice?
No many jargon wordsThe best sites / magazines for plain or simple english Real Estate advice?
real estate sales? purchasing? loans? what type of advice?
real estate sales? purchasing? loans? what type of advice?
Animal career advice what would be best?
vet
marine biologist
someone who works in a safari/ zoo like a zoo keeper or sumthingAnimal career advice what would be best?
You need to figure this out by yourself and perhaps a school counselor.
We don't know anything about your personality or your likes and dislikes so we can't tell you what you should do with your life.Animal career advice what would be best?
These might help:
http://www.kiplinger.com/columns/startin鈥?/a>
http://www.ehow.com/how_2093600_choose-a鈥?/a>
http://homeworktips.about.com/library/ma鈥?/a>
Hope eveything works out for ya!
marine biologist
someone who works in a safari/ zoo like a zoo keeper or sumthingAnimal career advice what would be best?
You need to figure this out by yourself and perhaps a school counselor.
We don't know anything about your personality or your likes and dislikes so we can't tell you what you should do with your life.Animal career advice what would be best?
These might help:
http://www.kiplinger.com/columns/startin鈥?/a>
http://www.ehow.com/how_2093600_choose-a鈥?/a>
http://homeworktips.about.com/library/ma鈥?/a>
Hope eveything works out for ya!
Who gives you the best and most reliable dating advice?
Who's your confidante when it comes to dating?Who gives you the best and most reliable dating advice?
probably my friends because they all have different opinions and they all have different styles so its nice to see what works and what doesntWho gives you the best and most reliable dating advice?
There is some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
myself their information is based on what happened to them which has nothing to do with whats happening with you
mom and possibly friends
Personal experiance has taught me alot about the world and how people of the opposite gender work
probably my friends because they all have different opinions and they all have different styles so its nice to see what works and what doesntWho gives you the best and most reliable dating advice?
There is some really good dating advice at http://www.datingwar.com
myself their information is based on what happened to them which has nothing to do with whats happening with you
mom and possibly friends
Personal experiance has taught me alot about the world and how people of the opposite gender work
Girls advice please? (best answer!)?
Ok there is this girl I really like and we've been sort of seeing each other for a few weeks. Last weekend she came over and watched a movie and we held hands a little and cuddled a little (no kissing unfortunately). Anyway she's been busy this week with tests and papers and I was thinking of surprising her with flowers tomorrow night (she has a test Wednesday). Do you think this is a good idea? What flowers would be a good choice would red roses be too much? maybe daisies? Thanks so much!!
Girls advice please? (best answer!)?
I'd stay away from roses atleast until you two are official.
Maybe just a little variety of flowers would be good =]Girls advice please? (best answer!)?
Aww how cute!
Go for it!
I would go for a pink rose.
or if she likes yellow that works.
And daisies are cute too lol
Im sure what ever you get she will love.
:]
Maybe something different if she likes baseball, a pack of baseball cards with cards that has study notes or flash cards that you created shows that you know what is going on, get creative.
Girls advice please? (best answer!)?
I'd stay away from roses atleast until you two are official.
Maybe just a little variety of flowers would be good =]Girls advice please? (best answer!)?
Aww how cute!
Go for it!
I would go for a pink rose.
or if she likes yellow that works.
And daisies are cute too lol
Im sure what ever you get she will love.
:]
Maybe something different if she likes baseball, a pack of baseball cards with cards that has study notes or flash cards that you created shows that you know what is going on, get creative.
Advice on the best approach to confront a family member of sexual abuse,forty years ago?
Forty years ago i was abused by a famliy member,who was my brother,for years i kept it one big secret now i want to tell the world of my abuse what started at the age of 9years old my brother was 16years old.I Intend to write to my brother asking him why he did this to me would it be a good thing to do ?.Advice on the best approach to confront a family member of sexual abuse,forty years ago?
He probably doesn't exactly know why he did it. But it is okay to tell him he was wrong for hurting you.Advice on the best approach to confront a family member of sexual abuse,forty years ago?
If the claim is a figment of yours or someone elses imagination it would be considered harassment and stalking which is against the law.
Sorry, honey, but it is no secret that people have been exposed to so called professionals that have tried to make them believe they were molested as a child and that's a fact.
It's also a fact that some commit dishonesty to diliberately cause trouble in families in attempt to cover up their current lifestyle choices.
I was also abused 40 years ago and only started talking about it 3 years ago....for me it was a big mistake as it is now constantly on my mind. The person in question has now died so I can't confront him...maybe that's the reason...who knows, but whatever you do think hard before any action and to quote my favourite saying 'don't ask the question unless your prepared for the answer'.
Hope this helps x
Your intention to do this indicates you are seeking closure. You need to be prepared for several different outcomes if you choose to go ahead. 1) He may not remember. Our pysche has a way of protecting us from unpleasant experiences. 2) He may remember but try to trivialise what happened, he probably has no idea of the effect his action had. 3) He may remember, feel guily and deny all knowledge. 4) He may remember and try to make you responsible. 5) He may be so embaressed/ashamed/guilty he won't even discuss it. Your closure needs to come from having confronted him after all this time, whatever his reaction is.
I wish you closure, peace of mind and healthy relationships. Good luck.
You deserve any measure of healing you can find. Think thru your choice of words carefully. Be specific about what you hope to gain from addressing this horrendous hurt. If you decide to confront, just understand it may not be a truth he's prepared to face up to. I hope that doesn't add to your pain. The goal is to come to terms with your personal suffering. He could likely be in denial it occurred. That history would likely cause him a fair share of embarrassment. Taketh care.
It depends on what you hope to achieve. You can choose many things, from writing it down and burning the paper to going to the police and having him prosecuted (no it's not too late). There is a charity called NAPAC- National Association for People Abused in Childhood- they have a website. I think that if you get in touch with them, they may help you decide how to manage this in a way that will give you peace of mind.
My thoughts are with you x
If you feel it would be good therapy for how you feel then do it.................or will it open up a can of worms..........don't tell the world, just tell your brother that you remember what he did and take it from there.
Yes.
The pain and shame you may have felt is normal and what happend to you is not your fault.
You are not alone.
Please read this article from MaleSurvivor.org about disclosure and confrontation -
http://www.malesurvivor.org/ArchivedPage鈥?/a>
Whether you are male or female you will find the information you need about how to go about talking to your brother and what to expect from him and other family members.
';This article is written for survivors who want to disclose their abuse. Disclosure may made to a partner or spouse who is unaware of the abuse, a non-offending parent or relative, sibling, friend or other person the survivor believes should know. This article is also about confrontation which will be covered in Part 2. The two acts, disclosure and confrontation, need to be well thought out to ensure success and reduce the possibility of additional trauma for the survivor.';
You indicate that this has been a big secret for you...boy I know what it鈥檚 like to finally be ready to tell the world, but you may want to start by shopping for a therapist. As you work through this and you feel you may be making progress on your own, you will eventually find that you are still not happy, or maybe you are still overeating, or abusing alcohol, and that's where a therapist can help... but it is vital you find the right one.
So you should read this article, A Consumer's Guide to Therapist Shopping-
http://www.malesurvivor.org/ArchivedPage鈥?/a>
What else...
So if you are a male survivor then you may want to check out the discussion board at MaleSurvivor.org 'cause you will find out exactly how many others out there have kept secrets just like you. And the best book out there for male survivors is Mike Lew's Victims No Longer.
If you are female then www.Rainn.org is the best place to check out.
Hope that helps.
The best part is that you've made the biggest and hardest step in understanding that what has happened in the past has caused you pain in your adult life. Many do not even understand the coloration between the abuse and their symptoms and continue to live in misery.
If you work hard on this, you will have the chance to be the happiest person you know. I finally did it, and if I can do it anyone can.
unless he's currently molesting someone else, just forget about, move on.
if it were me i would have to get the police involved it's sick that he did this too u, you've got nothing to be ashamed of but he certainly has, revenge is sweet and if you can get him punishment which he so well deserves then police is the best thing hun!!
It is a good thing that you want closure but to re-awake those problem from 40 years ago might harm you and him.
if you write a letter, how can you be sure that his wife/partner does nor open all the post and gets to read it first, then a can of worms and family feuding will start big style.
telephone him, tell him that you need to see him, away from both your immediate families and discuss it and see what happens.
Yes it is a good thing, because all problems... need a closure before its solved. A closure is important as it allows you move on knowing you have confronted your fear which is a hard thing to do but it release your burden your anger and your shame to come and face not anyone but yourself.
You can start by asking how he is what he is doing now then slowly you proceed with the cause of this letter to him. Remember to start off with happy tots to engage him further into the letter.ya.Slowly express the period or your time working etc; was god but effected by .... (the things you wish to say) Avoid the confession start at the beginng of the letter cos being the abuser himself once, such openings will only turn him off from reading ya.
Good Luck my friend im all with ya
I think you need to talk to him face to face.
This is something in your life that is not going to go away. You feel betrayed, and rightly so,
you have to bring this to a closure.
Although it will be the hardest thing you will ever
have to do, tell him you need to know why he
thought he had the right to that to you.
Then depending on his answer,you have to make up your own mind what to do next.
I really pray that you will soon have peace of
mind. God Bless.
I think face to face would be better
I think it would be very brave of you and would bring closure
i knew someone at Uni who ended up commiting suicide as she couldnt bring herself to confron t her brothers and it just tore her up
go with your gut feelings.all you can do is try for a response from him,he could be still doing this type of thing.is he married with children?is so i think you should speak out.REMEMBER you did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel guilty about.good luck i hope you find your closure and move forward in your life soon.
I think u should write to him(express clearly how u felt and continued to feel up 2 now) and make him own up for his actions cos i mean obviously this has been torturing u all these years and u need closure to continue with ur life. In addition, talking helps and there's no nid for u to continue protecting him whn uv suffered this much.. Wish u well!!
Yes write the letter to your brother. But can you be sure that this is not happening to others? I would advise going to the police too. Not just for your own justice but for the safety of others. I know that doing that would take a lot of strength and courage, but maybe you can start to put it all behind you
Good luck
Is this for your closure? I think you could write him a letter or invite him to a open public place, park bench etc and tell him, dont do this though if you dont plan to move forward and forgive, hes prob still in his own guilt also.
He probably doesn't exactly know why he did it. But it is okay to tell him he was wrong for hurting you.Advice on the best approach to confront a family member of sexual abuse,forty years ago?
If the claim is a figment of yours or someone elses imagination it would be considered harassment and stalking which is against the law.
Sorry, honey, but it is no secret that people have been exposed to so called professionals that have tried to make them believe they were molested as a child and that's a fact.
It's also a fact that some commit dishonesty to diliberately cause trouble in families in attempt to cover up their current lifestyle choices.
I was also abused 40 years ago and only started talking about it 3 years ago....for me it was a big mistake as it is now constantly on my mind. The person in question has now died so I can't confront him...maybe that's the reason...who knows, but whatever you do think hard before any action and to quote my favourite saying 'don't ask the question unless your prepared for the answer'.
Hope this helps x
Your intention to do this indicates you are seeking closure. You need to be prepared for several different outcomes if you choose to go ahead. 1) He may not remember. Our pysche has a way of protecting us from unpleasant experiences. 2) He may remember but try to trivialise what happened, he probably has no idea of the effect his action had. 3) He may remember, feel guily and deny all knowledge. 4) He may remember and try to make you responsible. 5) He may be so embaressed/ashamed/guilty he won't even discuss it. Your closure needs to come from having confronted him after all this time, whatever his reaction is.
I wish you closure, peace of mind and healthy relationships. Good luck.
You deserve any measure of healing you can find. Think thru your choice of words carefully. Be specific about what you hope to gain from addressing this horrendous hurt. If you decide to confront, just understand it may not be a truth he's prepared to face up to. I hope that doesn't add to your pain. The goal is to come to terms with your personal suffering. He could likely be in denial it occurred. That history would likely cause him a fair share of embarrassment. Taketh care.
It depends on what you hope to achieve. You can choose many things, from writing it down and burning the paper to going to the police and having him prosecuted (no it's not too late). There is a charity called NAPAC- National Association for People Abused in Childhood- they have a website. I think that if you get in touch with them, they may help you decide how to manage this in a way that will give you peace of mind.
My thoughts are with you x
If you feel it would be good therapy for how you feel then do it.................or will it open up a can of worms..........don't tell the world, just tell your brother that you remember what he did and take it from there.
Yes.
The pain and shame you may have felt is normal and what happend to you is not your fault.
You are not alone.
Please read this article from MaleSurvivor.org about disclosure and confrontation -
http://www.malesurvivor.org/ArchivedPage鈥?/a>
Whether you are male or female you will find the information you need about how to go about talking to your brother and what to expect from him and other family members.
';This article is written for survivors who want to disclose their abuse. Disclosure may made to a partner or spouse who is unaware of the abuse, a non-offending parent or relative, sibling, friend or other person the survivor believes should know. This article is also about confrontation which will be covered in Part 2. The two acts, disclosure and confrontation, need to be well thought out to ensure success and reduce the possibility of additional trauma for the survivor.';
You indicate that this has been a big secret for you...boy I know what it鈥檚 like to finally be ready to tell the world, but you may want to start by shopping for a therapist. As you work through this and you feel you may be making progress on your own, you will eventually find that you are still not happy, or maybe you are still overeating, or abusing alcohol, and that's where a therapist can help... but it is vital you find the right one.
So you should read this article, A Consumer's Guide to Therapist Shopping-
http://www.malesurvivor.org/ArchivedPage鈥?/a>
What else...
So if you are a male survivor then you may want to check out the discussion board at MaleSurvivor.org 'cause you will find out exactly how many others out there have kept secrets just like you. And the best book out there for male survivors is Mike Lew's Victims No Longer.
If you are female then www.Rainn.org is the best place to check out.
Hope that helps.
The best part is that you've made the biggest and hardest step in understanding that what has happened in the past has caused you pain in your adult life. Many do not even understand the coloration between the abuse and their symptoms and continue to live in misery.
If you work hard on this, you will have the chance to be the happiest person you know. I finally did it, and if I can do it anyone can.
unless he's currently molesting someone else, just forget about, move on.
if it were me i would have to get the police involved it's sick that he did this too u, you've got nothing to be ashamed of but he certainly has, revenge is sweet and if you can get him punishment which he so well deserves then police is the best thing hun!!
It is a good thing that you want closure but to re-awake those problem from 40 years ago might harm you and him.
if you write a letter, how can you be sure that his wife/partner does nor open all the post and gets to read it first, then a can of worms and family feuding will start big style.
telephone him, tell him that you need to see him, away from both your immediate families and discuss it and see what happens.
Yes it is a good thing, because all problems... need a closure before its solved. A closure is important as it allows you move on knowing you have confronted your fear which is a hard thing to do but it release your burden your anger and your shame to come and face not anyone but yourself.
You can start by asking how he is what he is doing now then slowly you proceed with the cause of this letter to him. Remember to start off with happy tots to engage him further into the letter.ya.Slowly express the period or your time working etc; was god but effected by .... (the things you wish to say) Avoid the confession start at the beginng of the letter cos being the abuser himself once, such openings will only turn him off from reading ya.
Good Luck my friend im all with ya
I think you need to talk to him face to face.
This is something in your life that is not going to go away. You feel betrayed, and rightly so,
you have to bring this to a closure.
Although it will be the hardest thing you will ever
have to do, tell him you need to know why he
thought he had the right to that to you.
Then depending on his answer,you have to make up your own mind what to do next.
I really pray that you will soon have peace of
mind. God Bless.
I think face to face would be better
I think it would be very brave of you and would bring closure
i knew someone at Uni who ended up commiting suicide as she couldnt bring herself to confron t her brothers and it just tore her up
go with your gut feelings.all you can do is try for a response from him,he could be still doing this type of thing.is he married with children?is so i think you should speak out.REMEMBER you did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel guilty about.good luck i hope you find your closure and move forward in your life soon.
I think u should write to him(express clearly how u felt and continued to feel up 2 now) and make him own up for his actions cos i mean obviously this has been torturing u all these years and u need closure to continue with ur life. In addition, talking helps and there's no nid for u to continue protecting him whn uv suffered this much.. Wish u well!!
Yes write the letter to your brother. But can you be sure that this is not happening to others? I would advise going to the police too. Not just for your own justice but for the safety of others. I know that doing that would take a lot of strength and courage, but maybe you can start to put it all behind you
Good luck
Is this for your closure? I think you could write him a letter or invite him to a open public place, park bench etc and tell him, dont do this though if you dont plan to move forward and forgive, hes prob still in his own guilt also.
Hair Cut advice please! Best answer will be chosen!?
So i want something different, always been long and i really like this. Im not emo or scene style so if I leave my hair my natural blonde would it still look scene/emo?
Be glad for suggestions too!
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i'm pretty sure that it won't look emo. it's emphasized in the picture probably because of the dark makeup too. i'm sure as a blond, you would look great with that haircut =) it probably won't look to harsh or edgy considering you don't have clashing hair colors such as blond and black (in the picture).pores skin treatment
Be glad for suggestions too!
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http://www.emohaircutstyles.com/wp-conte鈥?/a>Hair Cut advice please! Best answer will be chosen!?
i'm pretty sure that it won't look emo. it's emphasized in the picture probably because of the dark makeup too. i'm sure as a blond, you would look great with that haircut =) it probably won't look to harsh or edgy considering you don't have clashing hair colors such as blond and black (in the picture).
I hae stretchmarks on my boobs and want some advice on getting rid of them and the best products around?
hello turner the best to try is bio oil and its for scars and stretch marks.good luckI hae stretchmarks on my boobs and want some advice on getting rid of them and the best products around?
Bio oil is meant to be good. I used it for some scars and it worked I think.I hae stretchmarks on my boobs and want some advice on getting rid of them and the best products around?
i got them on my boobs and thighs after i had my baby, they have faded a little, i dont think theres anything that gets rid of them altogether.
i have tried fake tan and make up too, nothing gets rid of them although within time they do fade
Stretch marks are scars basically and anyone who tells you that expensive creams work is pulling your leg. The only way to get rid of them is to have cosmetic surgery.
You don't say whether you got these due to having a baby or losing weight. Either way, be proud of them.
I have had 4 children and have lots of stretch marks on my boobs and tummy and each one reminds me of a time when I was either pregnant or breastfeeding. Look at them positively.
Most men don't even notice them, once they see boobs they cant see anything else but!
Wear a good fitting bra, one that makes you feel good. Even if no-one else is likely to see it, just wearing a pretty bra makes me feel good.
Either way, enjoy your boobs the way they are, and don't feel bad because you have a few stretchmarks.
I saw a magazine picture of Vic Beckham and when the camera catches her on a bad day, even she has them! It's only because she can afford really expensive make up to disguise them that you dont see any as a rule!
Be proud of your boobs hun, and anyone that brings them to your attention really aint worth feeling down about!
I have not long had a baby and have the same problem, I use a product called bio-oil which although it on the expensive side 拢14.95 for a big bottle, it works wonders, you can apply it directly onto the skin or even drop a little in your bath.
Hope this helps.
i had the same problem and went to my doctor many times about it
unfortunately there is no miracle cure but i can advise to use bio oil in order to help them look less noticable and heal faster.
other products from chemists will all help to make them heal faster. however, stretch marks never completely go. they will always be there, although eventually they will not notice
there is no way to get rid of stretch marks that i know of
cocoa butter might help.
Bio oil is supposed to be good, have to apply 2 times a day, trying it out at the moment...........these things. unfortunately don't work overnight! But all the mags are raving about it at the mo'.
So giving it a try!
try coco butter, it's inexpensive and fast working
You are stuck with them but you could reduce there apperance with bio-oil its about 拢8 for a tiny little bottle. I had a kid 6 years ago and have awful stretch marks all over my stomach, bum, thighs, and waist not nice and im only 25. Just accept them as part of u and move on
There's nothing to get rid of stretch marks, only products that lighten them up...like cocoa butter or almond oil.
you are probably a real babe so dont focus on small imperfections when the overall pic is great
but cocoa butter formulaes with aloe vera and vit e do work well
it is better to use these before u get the stretch marks i.e while your breasts are growing or shrinking in size
focus in on you as an overall person not as a set of stretch marks!! good luck
Hi, I had lots of ugly red stretch marks on my boobs after I had my son. I used Palmers cocoa butter lotion everyday for about 6 months. My son is now 3 and a half and they have faded to silvery grey and are hardly visable. Don't worry they won't stay visable for too long. I can honestly hardly see mine now and they were horrendous at the time !!! xxx
Plastic Surgery.
BIO-OIL, 拢8,99 FROM CHEMISTS IF NOT TRY LAVENDER OIL
your stuck with it babe unless you make your boobs bigger .. take it the kids eat them away or you lost weight to quickly
if its still dark in color you might be lucky by using cocoa butter other than that... your stuck with it for the rest of you life
i have them on my butts, its pretty depressing... stay positive!
Bio oil is meant to be good. I used it for some scars and it worked I think.I hae stretchmarks on my boobs and want some advice on getting rid of them and the best products around?
i got them on my boobs and thighs after i had my baby, they have faded a little, i dont think theres anything that gets rid of them altogether.
i have tried fake tan and make up too, nothing gets rid of them although within time they do fade
Stretch marks are scars basically and anyone who tells you that expensive creams work is pulling your leg. The only way to get rid of them is to have cosmetic surgery.
You don't say whether you got these due to having a baby or losing weight. Either way, be proud of them.
I have had 4 children and have lots of stretch marks on my boobs and tummy and each one reminds me of a time when I was either pregnant or breastfeeding. Look at them positively.
Most men don't even notice them, once they see boobs they cant see anything else but!
Wear a good fitting bra, one that makes you feel good. Even if no-one else is likely to see it, just wearing a pretty bra makes me feel good.
Either way, enjoy your boobs the way they are, and don't feel bad because you have a few stretchmarks.
I saw a magazine picture of Vic Beckham and when the camera catches her on a bad day, even she has them! It's only because she can afford really expensive make up to disguise them that you dont see any as a rule!
Be proud of your boobs hun, and anyone that brings them to your attention really aint worth feeling down about!
I have not long had a baby and have the same problem, I use a product called bio-oil which although it on the expensive side 拢14.95 for a big bottle, it works wonders, you can apply it directly onto the skin or even drop a little in your bath.
Hope this helps.
i had the same problem and went to my doctor many times about it
unfortunately there is no miracle cure but i can advise to use bio oil in order to help them look less noticable and heal faster.
other products from chemists will all help to make them heal faster. however, stretch marks never completely go. they will always be there, although eventually they will not notice
there is no way to get rid of stretch marks that i know of
cocoa butter might help.
Bio oil is supposed to be good, have to apply 2 times a day, trying it out at the moment...........these things. unfortunately don't work overnight! But all the mags are raving about it at the mo'.
So giving it a try!
try coco butter, it's inexpensive and fast working
You are stuck with them but you could reduce there apperance with bio-oil its about 拢8 for a tiny little bottle. I had a kid 6 years ago and have awful stretch marks all over my stomach, bum, thighs, and waist not nice and im only 25. Just accept them as part of u and move on
There's nothing to get rid of stretch marks, only products that lighten them up...like cocoa butter or almond oil.
you are probably a real babe so dont focus on small imperfections when the overall pic is great
but cocoa butter formulaes with aloe vera and vit e do work well
it is better to use these before u get the stretch marks i.e while your breasts are growing or shrinking in size
focus in on you as an overall person not as a set of stretch marks!! good luck
Hi, I had lots of ugly red stretch marks on my boobs after I had my son. I used Palmers cocoa butter lotion everyday for about 6 months. My son is now 3 and a half and they have faded to silvery grey and are hardly visable. Don't worry they won't stay visable for too long. I can honestly hardly see mine now and they were horrendous at the time !!! xxx
Plastic Surgery.
BIO-OIL, 拢8,99 FROM CHEMISTS IF NOT TRY LAVENDER OIL
your stuck with it babe unless you make your boobs bigger .. take it the kids eat them away or you lost weight to quickly
if its still dark in color you might be lucky by using cocoa butter other than that... your stuck with it for the rest of you life
i have them on my butts, its pretty depressing... stay positive!
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