So Sunday night (a week ago Tonite) i hooked up with this girl and i loved it but it was my best friend's well it wasn't his anything but they are talking, anyway she hasn't talked to me since and the night was perfect she came over at 10 and she didn't leave till 3 we talked and cuddled and kissed and other things of that nature. I have tried to talk to her 4 times since then: 3 times by text and 1 time by phone. i quit after that. i saw her at the game friday night and more at school earlier in the week and she wouldn't even make eye contact. I really like her, all i do at night is lay awake and think what im going to do to get her. Now while we aren't on talking terms she is falling for my friend who doesn't really care if hes with this girl or that girl. Ive had girlfriends and girl problems before but nothing like this, like ive never even felt like this. normaly im all happy and what not but i actually cried today and i havnt cried in atleast 6 months. Pitiful i know.
so i guess should i force her to see me or talk to me (if so how like wait by her car after school or something)
Should i keep up the calling and texting
should i write her a song (I play ukulele) and leave it on a CD on her car
should i burn her a cd of different songs that express what im trying to say to her
or i could go to her house and preform the song for her (kinda creepy i thouhgt and her sisters in my grade and would be there) (the girl is a year older than me)
or give up (not really an option because i really really like her) Girl Advice please, best plan of action gets 10 points!!?
How about none of the above. Let it look like you've given up and play like it doesn't matter one bit to you. I think she might come around then. Just back completely off. Really. It works. No songs. No cd's. No forcing her to do anything. That's just wrong anyway you look at it. Let her come to you. If you take any of the actions above, she will run for the hills.Girl Advice please, best plan of action gets 10 points!!?
give her some time then start talking to her again
good luck sounds like you really need it!
hey, the making the mixed cd sounds good. leave little cute notes like ';i am thinking of you' or 'hope you have a great day' by her car window or locker. dont call anymore.
if she doesn't respond to the note or the cd then sorry she really does have eyes for someone else.
she may be embarrassed to talk to you too especially if it was good for her too. she might be trying to sort out her feelings. take it slow, be romantic but also be patient.
Dont do anything like a song or keep calling because that gets Very annoying to us girls! The best bet is to wait by her car with a rose and say what you have been thinking. u r the sweetest person and i bet shell fall for you! Hope this HELPS!!
I think she just wanted to hook up with you and nothing else. She's ignoring you after your four attempts to contact her. You are going to have to give up. If you force it anymore you will make her uncomfortable and come off as creepy and stalkerish.
I know that this is really hard to hear but this girl is regretting doing what she did with you. She doesn't seem to return your feelings and you are scaring her with how into her you've become in such avery short time. I know that it's the last thing you ever want to do but your best chance at salvaging any kind of relationship with this girl is for you to back off right now and keep it light when you do get to chat to her. You've scared her but if you back off now maybe she'll come around later.
In my opinion I think u should stop trying to talk to her. Your putting so much effort and in the end ur only hurting urself. Its obvious after you guys messed around that night she probably feels occured about it. Its not ur fault but sometimes females get like that or maybe she is afraid ur friend is going to find out about ya. I also think ur starting to like her so much is because she's not giving u any attention and is completely ignoring u. If u continue to try to get her attention don't put so much energy into it.
You seem desperate and thats a major turn off. show her that you can have a good time without her and she'll come scampering back if she likes you too. (:
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