Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?

Ok I'm a senior in college and in a few weeks my winter break is starting. There is this girl in high school who I always had a crush on and I had a couple classes with her. We are from the same hometown and I know she will be home around the sametime my break is. We aren't facebook friends but I was wondering if it would be a good idea to send her a facebook message asking if she would like to meet for coffee sometime?





I know if we got together we would get along great and who knows maybe something could develop. I never see her though so that's why face to face won't work. Should I add her as a friend first and say something or just ask her out around winter break? Any other ideas or things I should say? Thanks so much!Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Add her as a friend first, get to know her, and then if the time is right, ask her for coffee.Girls advice please? (Best answer!)?
Awe, that's great. I think you should call her, but you may not have her number. So yeah, just send a facebook message asking her if over the break, if she has time, to go get something to eat for lunch with her. then leave your cell phone number in case she would rather call back.


Good Luck.



talk to her before winter break.. if you send her a message asking her for a coffee on Facebook then she's going to think you're a creeper.. Once you talk to her once you can send her a friend invite on Facebook with no creeper backlash
just talk to her and hang out after classes and just let her get to know u, so that she ';wont think ur a creeper'; then while your hanging out just casually ask her to go out for coffee, and don't act like its a big deal while ur around her.
yea you should add her and then be like


omg im so bored lets go get coffee sometime or something if you want to.
Okay, let's get down to business. You say ';there is this girl in high school...';. Does that mean that she is actually IN high school? It doesn't sound like it, so I'm going to assume she's your age. Now, during your winter break, if you are going to see her you should make sure she knows who you are first. She might be the type of girl that only goes out with someone she knows. She also might be the type that doesn't care whether you know her or not. I would suggest sending her a message on Facebook, asking her straight up if she would like to go out for coffee sometime. Say something like, ';Hi, *name*, I was wondering if you would like to go out for coffee sometime? This is *your name*, remember me?'; You can add in some things before you actually ask her out. You should let her get to know you a little bit before you actually ask her out though, or you will most definitely get rejected. I hope this helps!
add her at facebook, than just IM her for a bit. and after a day or so ask for her cell number. than start texting her some flirty messages and a few days before your break, just text her and be like i'm gonna come 2 the town 4 the break. wanna hang out some time? i've missed having a coffee at ...... (insert name of a popular caf茅 in ur hometown here) so much! if she likes you back, she'll say yes. than you can see how your date goes and decide if you wanna ask her out or not. if it goes well, flirt a lot and see if she flirts back, but also try to get to know her more! best of luck!