Sunday, August 22, 2010

I need some advice about my best friend & a guy!?

okay so i have this best friend, and she totally is into this guy at my school. the guy and i are friends, and i think he's starting to like me and i like him back. my friend doesn't know i like him, and keeps asking me to ask him out for her. he doesn't like her, since he keeps saying no, and i knew that she would be crushed if we started going out. what should i do??I need some advice about my best friend %26amp; a guy!?
Go out with him.


It sucks for her.


He likes you, you like him. Simple as that.


If she says something like ';I'm not your friend anymore';


she's not worth it because she's not supporting you.I need some advice about my best friend %26amp; a guy!?
okay, you need to decide who is more important: some guy or your best friend. look, guys come and go, and you know that, right? well bff's meant to stay through anything. you're friendship is being tested right now and you need to do the right thing.


talk to your friend. tell her how long you have been liking this guy for and tell her how you feel about the whole issue. then ask for her side. if she's mad, then oh well. she'll get over it and you two will be able to figure it out soon enough. but, if she's really your friend, then she won't be mad. she'll understand, and you'll just have to play it by ear to see who gets him and who doesn't, or just don't date him at all. look out for her and you. that's all.
well i think that you should just sit her down and tell her how you and him feel about eachother, and that you


know that he doesnt


like her.


shes your best friend, and ya theres a good


chance that she will get mad,


but you cant keep things away from her.


she would probably be more hurt that you have been keeping it


from her, than you and the boy going


out.


Good luck!
You NEED TO TELL HER WHAT HE SAID!! A friend would tell that to her friend if the guy said no. And they would be their for her. just don't go out with him for awhile and be their for your best friend right now. Try to get her to meet other guys and then start worrying about the guy. Or just tell your friend but that would crush her :((
If your friend told you that she likes this guy, the best thing for you is to respect her wishes and her future relationship as well. The argument is not even worth losing your crush and your friend as well.

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