I need your advice my best guy friend........?

well i have been best friends with this guy since we were 13 now were 20 and we are exactly alike we alwasy said if we did not get married by the time we were 25 we would get married to eachother well lately i have been thinking about him i dunt know why cuz he is my best friend we have never even kissed before but he is exaclty what i am looking for in a guy he is smart, focused career oriented and not like all the losers i have dated in the past and we are both lonely we always call eachother husband and wife and joke around but i think we both have feelings for eachother we are perfect for eachother but i am afraid because we are best friends and i know if it doesnt work out it can never be the same i am so confused because he has been on my mind alot and we share similar views about everything i am just wondering what should i do i know if i told him i wanted to be with him he would agreeeI need your advice my best guy friend........?
This is a tough one, because if you cross that line, and begin dating, it can only go one of two ways:





You both fall in love with each other, get married, and live happily ever after. A storybook beginning %26amp; ending--marry the girl next door, and ride off into the sunset.





Or, for whatever reason, on either or both ends, it does not work out, and you give up on the romantic thing. But now, you have lost a friend, too. You are right in saying that it will never be the same again, but for reasons you may not have even considered: this now puts you in the catagory of ';the ex-girlfriend';, and a potential threat to whoever he DOES end up with eventually. Or the problem could come from YOUR future husband. Either way, somone may end up having to chose between a good friend, or spouse.





Which is why there were some good friends I have had over the years--who just did not happen to have a penis, and I never held it against them--that I could have gone there with, but for the reasons stated above, didn't, am and now glad for it. I still have a couple of them as friends, and their hubby's O.K. with it, in part because we were never lovers. These gals were more valuable to me as a friend, because a true friend you never lose, while lovers come %26amp; go.





But only you two know what is best for you situation; lol %26amp; good liuck!I need your advice my best guy friend........?
You should talk to him about it... see what he says.