Tuesday, August 24, 2010

I need some advice. My best friend....?

Has a boyfriend who's a real asshole. (Sorry. He is.) He yells at her daily for talking to other guys when he flirts with other girls. He got mad because I was #1 in her top friends and he was #2. They break up a lot, but she always say she loves him.





And anytime I try to tell her to break up with him she says I'm not being a good friend. What do I do?????I need some advice. My best friend....?
that guy does does sound like a dick


but anyways...dont let this B.S get to you


shes only saying ur not a good friend bc shes stuck in this little world and cant seem to handle the truth about her situation.


but no matter what...stick by ur best friend bc she's going to go to u for help and comfort herI need some advice. My best friend....?
Talk to her in private, and look her straight in her eyes, and tell her what you really think. Tell her that you know that you told her this a million times, but you seriously think that you should break up with him. Its your job as her friend to tell her the truth, and the truth is, she was being hurt by this guy, but she didnt want to end it because she didnt think love would come again or shed meet someone again. Your friend doesnt have that much confidence, so tell her that her bf isnt the only guy, and she shouldnt be target of such abuse, and that she was better then this. If you really tell her, she will see that you are right. If she doesnt though, as the first person who answered said, she'll have to live through his screaming and madness, and waste a lot of time with him, until finally she'll realise what a mistake it had been.
Keep out of it. I had a friend who found out her boyfriend had been cheating on her, had slept with men, and went with her to get to me (her best friend) yet she still went back with him. Now he thinks he can get away with anything and has ended up spliting our relationship so now we arent friends. Best thing is to keep out of it. You cant come in between relationships even though it will be hard because i know she is your friend.





xxx
if shes not listening to you you're just going to have to let her learn herself,after all people learn form their mistakes right?..

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